Originally posted by CoconutThe problem with an adult/child sexual relationship is that no meaningful relationship is possible. The adult is simply using the child in a twisted kind of masturbation. The child is dehumanized and objectified. In far too many cases the child is simply discarded afterwards, sometimes emotonally, sometimes literally as in cases where children are killed and the bodies dumped somewhere. Essentially the same process happens when an adult is raped by another adult. As I follow this thread and think about it, I would personally be very uncomfortable about even considering a relationship with anyone not of my generation. Generation is difficult to define but I expect we can all figure it out after a little non-sexual interaction with someone.
I believe I already answered. When society stops making adult/child relationships the absolute worse thing someone can do.
However, none of that sheds any light on what legal ages should be. I consider anyone who can make their own way in the world an adult, but that age would vary considerably.
Originally posted by ivanhoeOkay. I've already addressed the topic, so I will not repeat anything here, what I will say is that it's not my goal to find a young child in my bed. I have no need for emotionless sex with someone who can't understand. The more I talk to girls around 16, the more I realize how mixed up they are (and I was) at that age. Mixed up is unattractive, but not 100% of them are that way, and they are free to make other life-changing decisions. Sex should not be excluded from the choices they are legally allowed to make.
Where do you draw the line for having sex with children, Coco bro ?
Originally posted by Remora91
Just wondering, are you attracted to people your own age or one younger girl in particular (just because of her personality) or younger females in general?
I am attracted to people of my own age, and find younger girls to be physically attractive. My best online friend is a 14 year old girl.
Originally posted by CoconutThis speaks volumes. You should be locked away. If I had a daughter, I would certainly want to know if people like you were living in my neighbourhood.
I find younger girls to be physically attractive. My best online friend is a 14 year old girl.
Does this "14 year old friend" (and I remind the audience that Cock 'n' Nuts is 19/20) know that you are sexually attracted to girls her age. What do you think her parents would say, and how would you react if you (god forbid) had a child who was in a relationship with a 20 year old guy aged 14?
Originally posted by Freddie2006If she can find a 20 year old guy who is aged 14, I would be so surprised she could do whatever she wants with him.
This speaks volumes. You should be locked away. If I had a daughter, I would certainly want to know if people like you were living in my neighbourhood.
Does this "14 year old friend" (and I remind the audience that Cock 'n' Nuts is 19/20) know that you are sexually attracted to girls her age. What do you think her parents would say, and how would you ...[text shortened]... ct if you (god forbid) had a child who was in a relationship with a 20 year old guy aged 14?
Coco nuts is 19 though, I believe, so from his picture, he is a 19 year old guy aged about 15.
Originally posted by Freddie2006She does, but it isn't like that wit her. Her parents don't like her talking to anyone she doesn't know/having a myspace/etc. She's just fun to talk with, and online a lot of the time. We have group convos with my friends, her friends, XanthosNZ sometimes.
Does this "14 year old friend" (and I remind the audience that Cock 'n' Nuts is 19/20) know that you are sexually attracted to girls her age. What do you think her parents would say, and how would you react if you (god forbid) had a child who was in a relationship with a 20 year old guy aged 14?
She's in Greece until the end of the month though. I am sad.
Originally posted by Freddie2006As a father with two daughters I will tell you the outcome would be most unsatisfying for any emotionaly immature male his age.
This speaks volumes. You should be locked away. If I had a daughter, I would certainly want to know if people like you were living in my neighbourhood.
Does this "14 year old friend" (and I remind the audience that Cock 'n' Nuts is 19/20) know that you are sexually attracted to girls her age. What do you think her parents would say, and how would you ...[text shortened]... ct if you (god forbid) had a child who was in a relationship with a 20 year old guy aged 14?
If I found out that a man? his age was sniffing around my daughter at age fourteen we would have a real problem. His would be breathing through his broken neck and mine getting rid of the body.
RTh
Originally posted by UmbrageOfSnowPerhaps you should learn to decipher more complicated sentance structures than "Spot the dog went to the park" before you start to make jokes. The sentance makes sense.
If she can find a 20 year old guy who is aged 14, I would be so surprised she could do whatever she wants with him.
Coco nuts is 19 though, I believe, so from his picture, he is a 19 year old guy aged about 15.
Originally posted by CoconutSo, you are best buddies with this 14 year old, who is clearly only talking to you to rebel against her strict parents who would go nuts and kick your scrawny ass if they found out she was being groomed by a 20 y/o guy.
She does, but it isn't like that wit her. Her parents don't like her talking to anyone she doesn't know/having a myspace/etc. She's just fun to talk with, and online a lot of the time. We have group convos with my friends, her friends, XanthosNZ sometimes.
She's in Greece until the end of the month though. I am sad.
I love the way you slipped talking with Xanthos into your arguament as if to deflect from what you're doing, or to make it seem "ok".
I also love the way you admit that you're sad. It's the first step. Next all you have to do is get yourself to a meeting, stand up in front of a load of like-minded people and admit "Hi, my name's Coconut, and I'm a paedophile".
Originally posted by RingtailhunterThank God there are some sane fathers out there. I especially like the "?" after man in your post, Ringtail.
As a father with two daughters I will tell you the outcome would be most unsatisfying for any emotionaly immature male his age.
If I found out that a man? his age was sniffing around my daughter at age fourteen we would have a real problem. His would be breathing through his broken neck and mine getting rid of the body.
RTh
Grown man...physically attracted to 14 year olds?
He needs some SERIOUS help...NOW. He is one SICK SOB.
Originally posted by CoconutIt IS the ABSOLUTE worst thing one human being can do to another.
I believe I already answered. When society stops making adult/child relationships the absolute worse thing someone can do.
Something "breaks" deep inside that child.
Do some research.
Find out for yourself the permanent damage this does to a human being. It is something they carry with them for the rest of their lives...through no fault of their own.
Child molesters (YES - 19 year olds with freaking 14 year olds INCLUDED) deserve nothing less than LIFE in prison...AFTER the father of the CHILD does what he wishes to the pervert that ruined his child's life forever.
Originally posted by jules2006I agree. Child molesters have terrible intentions. As do rapists, kidnappers, terrorists.
Child molesters (YES - 19 year olds with freaking 14 year olds INCLUDED) deserve nothing less than LIFE in prison...AFTER the father of the CHILD does what he wishes to the pervert that ruined his child's life forever.
Originally posted by UmbrageOfSnowYour friend didn't come up with this. Also my girlfriend is breaking this rule.😲
Sidetrack: A friend of mine came up with a formula for the youngest age girl a guy should think about dating. I think it was (age of guy/2)+7 = age of girl. So a 19 year old would have a lower limit of 16.5, a 40 year old would have a lower limit of 27, etc. After that, he thinks it is creepy, and yes, this guy does the math every time. Do you guys think this formula plays out relativly accurately?