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13 Dec 16
Originally posted by Very RustyDive, did you get the first part of that phrase? Private? Although one is not in a legal sense required to keep a PM to him or herself, it seems to me a moral lapse to cut and paste it for some buddies to look at. So if it was a photo of her in a compromising position, would that modify your stance or would it still be ok for someone to post that photo to a bunch of pre-pubescent kids?
Dive,
Then let me explain it to you. It was a P.M. (Private Message) between two parties not for you to look at!
-VR
If she said, FMF, I am going out of my way, I know where you live, I am coming after you so you better fear me, I will have an AK47 and a shotgun just ready to blow you to pieces'
Now a threat like that could be grounds for legal action.
So, was her PM anything like that?
It just seems like a HUGE mountain made of a VERY small molehill.
14 Dec 16
Originally posted by sonhouseI don't see how it's a "huge mountain" at all, unless you're referring to the silly fuss about it robbie, chaney3 and Very Rusty - and indeed Suzianne - have been trying to make.
It just seems like a HUGE mountain made of a VERY small molehill.
If the abuse of the message system to make specific "secret" threats had been reported to the Mods, she might have been forum banned. Now THAT might have been ending up with a mountain where there was only a molehill.
Or maybe the rather demented vanity of her making those threats in the first place as a reaction to disagreements on a public forum? Maybe that was the molehill turned into a mountain.
But I don't see how not indulging her and not keeping her abusive behaviour secret in the way she might have wanted is a "huge mountain" in the way you say.
Originally posted by FMFMore amateur dramatics for RHPs resident ham thespian! Tell us how you would react if you chanced upon some serious abuse? would you spread it around for your friends to have a laugh?
I don't see how it's a "huge mountain" at all, unless you're referring to the silly fuss about it robbie, chaney3 and Very Rusty - and indeed Suzianne - have been trying to make.
If the abuse of the message system to make specific "secret" threats had been reported to the Mods, she might have been forum banned. Now THAT might have been ending up with a mount ...[text shortened]... usive behaviour secret in the way she might have wanted is a "huge mountain" in the way you say.
14 Dec 16
Originally posted by sonhouseI'm not making a "huge mountain" of fuss about it at all. The three stooges are.
Dive, did you get the first part of that phrase? Private? Although one is not in a legal sense required to keep a PM to him or herself, it seems to me a moral lapse to cut and paste it for some buddies to look at. So if it was a photo of her in a compromising position, would that modify your stance or would it still be ok for someone to post that photo to a ...[text shortened]... her PM anything like that?
It just seems like a HUGE mountain made of a VERY small molehill.
However you make a good point about the content of the message determining the ethics of passing it on; and therein lies the secret to what seems to be a mystery, even to you.
Originally posted by sonhousethey are low down yella bellied cowards humiliating ladies just for kicks.
Dive, did you get the first part of that phrase? Private? Although one is not in a legal sense required to keep a PM to him or herself, it seems to me a moral lapse to cut and paste it for some buddies to look at. So if it was a photo of her in a compromising position, would that modify your stance or would it still be ok for someone to post that photo to a ...[text shortened]... her PM anything like that?
It just seems like a HUGE mountain made of a VERY small molehill.
Originally posted by divegeesterDive,
I'm not making a "huge mountain" of fuss about it at all. The three stooges are.
However you make a good point about the content of the message determining the ethics of passing it on; and therein lies the secret to what seems to be a mystery, even to you.
Just so there is no mistake here before I say anything. WHO EXACTLY are you calling the 3 stooges?
-VR
14 Dec 16
Originally posted by robbie carrobieThe amateur dramatics have been yours. She abused the message system by making threats using it, I showed it to some of the regular posters here. I told her in public that I had done so. That was it. All the histrionics, and hand waving, the insults, the catchphrases, the dragging this out interminably has been your doing and Very Rusty's doing and chaney3's doing.
More amateur dramatics for RHPs resident ham thespian!
14 Dec 16
Originally posted by robbie carrobieI would take whatever step I thought was necessary (and most likely) to prevent recurrence of the abusive behaviour or the threats. Surely you would do the same?
Tell us how you would react if you chanced upon some serious abuse? would you spread it around for your friends to have a laugh?