Originally posted by FMFOh pleeeze, like I said, you are making a mountain out of a molehill which suites the drama queen temperment you clearly have. I bet you whined to mommy when you were a kid everytime your brother or sister snapped your undies.
OK then. Well. Good for you.
So, anyway, do you believe that the target of an abusive threatening message has an obligation to keep the abusive person's behaviour secret?
Originally posted by KewpieKewpie,
This whole sorry saga could be killed off immediately if Suzianne chose to publish its contents here.
That would seem to solve the issue. Only one small road block here. Do you remember when GB posted a P.M. in the General forum given to him by someone and ended up with a forum ban for doing so? I do very well!!!
It was back some years ago now. I don't know if the rules have become more relaxed about that. They seem to be more relaxed about a lot of things from what I am seeing.
-VR
Originally posted by Very RustyI think posting a PM on a forum is bad form.
That would seem to solve the issue. Only one small road block here. Do you remember when GB posted a P.M. in the General forum given to him by someone and ended up with a forum ban for doing so? I do very well!!!
Originally posted by Kewpie
This whole sorry saga could be killed off immediately if Suzianne chose to publish its contents here.
Originally posted by FMF
apathist suggested exactly this about 5 days ago and I agreed with him.
Originally posted by FMF
I think posting a PM on a forum is bad form.
Originally posted by JS357
Without permission, for sure. But the fact that it can happen should be taught in Internet 101.
I am NOT posting the PM here, because I simply do not trust FMF to "spread this around" to all his "friends" without making the PM seem far more "abusive and threatening" than it really was. After all, FMF has been going on and on and on and on in the other thread about what an absolutely horrible person I am for sending such an incredibly "abusive and threatening" PM to him. If I post the actual PM here, all he has to do is SAY that the ACTUAL PM was far worse and post the version he sent 'round to his "friends" as "proof". This makes me out to be a liar when that is not the truth. So I insist that FMF post the PM that he sent to 20, or 24, or 5, or whatever the number was, here first. If he refuses, then I would ask that anyone who received this PM from him post the PM that he sent them here or in the other thread. I am requesting that FMF (or any of his "agents" to whom he sent this PM) post the PM here, and I, as the author of the PM in question, hereby give him full permission to post it here (or the other thread) in its entirety. Specifically, I would ask him to post the version he sent 'round to his "friends", and that this be backed up by those friends as the text they received. And then, after I confirm whether or not this actually IS the PM I sent him originally, then further discussion can be held as to the degree of these supposed "abuses and threats".
I feel that these terms are eminently fair. I have sent my original PM to others, and they have not seen the version FMF has shown to others, and after I have confirmed the PM (or not, in the case that they do not match) they can then confirm whether my original PM is the same as the version FMF posted or not.
So what do you say, FMF? Are you going to "put up", or are you going to "shut up"?
After all, you are the one making extraordinary claims here, therefore it is up to you to provide your "proof".
Originally posted by FMFFMF,
I think posting a PM on a forum is bad form.
I truely believe that sharing a P.M. with 20-24 friends is in bad form and taste. Especially when it was someone who you were in an argument back and forth. I think no matter what was in the P.M. you had it coming. You are still getting lots of attention from it. IF that was what you were looking for you have done that and then some!!!
I just read suz's post, so if anyone that received the P.M. wants to post what he sent them, then she has given her approval. That changes everything now!!!
-VR
Suzianne's PM as sent to me by FMF on October 27:
The PM I got from Suzianne a few days ago
Congratulations.
I've had many opponents during my time at RHP, but most of them are now gone. None of them ever beat me, but you have succeeded. I don't know anything about you, but I suspect that you have experience, probably as a politician, in exploiting the words of others, experience that I do not have.
I have no more desire to fight you. You have made every tool at my disposal ineffective. You have out maneuvered me and have managed to slime your way to victory. Every minute I spend giving you further giggles is a minute of my time I will not ever get back, and I am no longer eager to give you any more of them. You have totally eliminated my desire to remain on this site, and so your victory is complete. I hope you are happy.
I hope you are happy that you have ruined Russ' livelihood. The man did not deserve having you become so besotted with your desire for victory over me that you have laid your scorched earth all over his website. I am not the first, nor the only, nor the last, to leave because of your unrelenting hatred.
When my subscription lapses, I will not be renewing. Take that as you will, but you can rest assured that when my subscription is gone, so I will be. I am just not interested in further daily abuse. You've not made my experience here over the last six months a happy one. And this is not how I wish to spend my time anymore. I used to love this site. Thanks for ruining it for me. I am very thankful that I do not know anyone in my life who is as horrible a person as you have been to me during these last six months. I refuse to give you any more energy. I know you have others here that will keep you fed, but you're not feeding off of me any more.
And don't try responding to me, because you are now on my ignore list. If you do manage to get a message to me, I will report you for harassment. And if I am ever unfortunate enough to meet you face to face, I will hurt you.
Have a nice day.
Originally posted by HandyAndyThanks Handy Andy. I felt I had no obligation to keep a message like that secret, so I passed it on to people who might be interested. Well done to Suzianne for coming clean by giving her permission to have it posted on the forum.
Suzianne's PM as sent to me by FMF on October 27: