I think what's really important is that you like yourself. Don't worry about what other people think cause you can never please them. Live to please yourself.
Reminds me of a call I got the other day. This friend named "Bob" called cause we hadn't seen each other since Christmas. During our conversation he said, "How's your diet going?"
Yeah, there was a pause on my end. Then I said to him, "Diet? What diet? I'm not on a diet!"
Why do would anyone think I'd be on a diet!? ðŸ˜