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Originally posted by Very RustyWow, Rusty, some turnabout. Your hidden alter ego announces itself. Listen up, The issue is AUTHORITY. Authority rests with Russ and
You are starting to sound like an old woman yourself ! No offense to real old women ! 🙂
Did you ever stop and think that perhaps you may not KNOW-IT-All? Has the thought even entered your mind?
Chris. Period over and out. Nothing to do whatsoever with anything you or I might presume to speculate on or think we know. -Bobby
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Originally posted by Grampy BobbyI wouldn't talk about ego if I were you, because it is something you are indeed not short on.
Wow, Rusty, some turnabout. Your hidden alter ego announces itself. Listen up, The issue is AUTHORITY. Authority rests with Russ and
Chris. Period over and out. Nothing to do whatsoever with anything you or I might presume to speculate on or think we know. -Bobby
If you want to impress Russ and Chris, try doing without your sarcasm, and crap about womanhood. You sit to have a crap, and it stinks just as bad as the rest of us. Makes you no BETTER, and probably no worse. Below is what I refer to before you ask, like you have no idea what I am talking about. In your very own words.
*Why keep on fingering it to death? For God sake, either have or gather up the man/womanhood to let it go.*
There is no part of me that is womanhood, you think you are cute with your insult, I think you are just insulting!
16 May 08
Originally posted by Very RustyI don't know what's insulting about that. You haven't met Grampy, have you? Your user name doesn't give away your gender, so how would he know whether you are male or female? I rather find it insulting that you see "womanhood" as something insulting...
*Why keep on fingering it to death? For God sake, either have or gather up the man/womanhood to let it go.*
There is no part of me that is womanhood, you think you are cute with your insult, I think you are just insulting!
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Originally posted by Grampy BobbyNo I'm not, if you check the suspect's profile you can find "player banned from site". The only thing is you have to know who you want to look for, you're not provided with a handy list. When somebody spots one they usually put up a "why was XX banned" anyway. And if one of your active opponents gets a ban you'll find out too.
MissOleum, you obviously are in possession of esoteric and priviliged insider information....
I've tried challenging you but your challenge is blocked too, so I've temporarily increased my gamecount limit. Unrated would be appropriate.
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16 May 08
Originally posted by MissOleumI tried to look for it this morning, to see if any regular forum posters would no-longer be posting. No more list. Shame, but I'll live.
No I'm not, if you check the suspect's profile you can find "player banned from site". The only thing is you have to know who you want to look for, you're not provided with a handy list. When somebody spots one they usually put up a "why was XX banned" anyway. And if one of your active opponents gets a ban you'll find out too.
There were some omissions from the list, including some where I had noticed the "why..." forum posts. Curious, but as there is no longer a list, this will no longer be visible. I guess I don't need to know anyway.
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Originally posted by Very RustyRusty, the posts were directed at the complainers in general. That's why I tried to be gender inclusive. Error was in attaching one to your
I wouldn't talk about ego if I were you, because it is something you are indeed not short on.
If you want to impress Russ and Chris, try doing without your sarcasm, and crap about womanhood. You sit to have a crap, and it stinks just as bad as the rest of us. Makes you no BETTER, and probably no worse. Below is what I refer to before you ask, like you ...[text shortened]... me that is womanhood, you think you are cute with your insult, I think you are just insulting!
post. You well know (from our conversations last week) that we're 90% likeminded and of my respect for you. I value your friendship and ask
you to forgive this social error. Let's view the incident in perspective as an incidental tussle, which our kindred spirits can easily absorb.
Okay...
gb
P.S. Your poopies seem to be odoriferous? Hmm...
😀
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Originally posted by NordlysWe have exchanged P.M.'s he even knows my name. Why do you say crap, when you don't have a clue what is going on ? You just like to get involved?
I don't know what's insulting about that. You haven't met Grampy, have you? Your user name doesn't give away your gender, so how would he know whether you are male or female? I rather find it insulting that you see "womanhood" as something insulting...
When you are not a woman and the person knows you are not a woman it is indeed insulting. I am sure you would like everyone refering to you as male, or perhaps you would, not everyone does.
Keep in mind the post was directed to me, not to everyone in general, not that everyone and their dog can't comment on it. That is where the insult comes from.
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Originally posted by Grampy BobbyI got my point across. I think you knew exactly what you were doing and the reaction you would get, for some reason known only to you.
Rusty, the posts were directed at the complainers in general. That's why I tried to be gender inclusive. Error was in attaching one to your
post. You well know (from our conversations last week) that we're 90% likeminded and of my respect for you. I value your friendship and ask
you to forgive this social error. Let's view the incident in perspect ...[text shortened]... absorb.
Okay...
gb
P.S. Your poopies seem to be odoriferous? Hmm...
😀
As I told you in our private p.m.'s, I have nothing against anyone, and will take crap off no one either.
I hold no ill will, towards you or anyone on this site. I will not brown nose to make friends either. What you do is entirely up to you!
16 May 08
Originally posted by Very RustyHarsh, Rusty. In a late night post a point of reference error was made in the expression of my disdain over self righteous, self serving
I got my point across. I think you knew exactly what you were doing and the reaction you would get, for some reason known only to you.
As I told you in our private p.m.'s, I have nothing against anyone, and will take crap off no one either.
I hold no ill will, towards you or anyone on this site. I will not brown nose to make friends either. What you do is entirely up to you!
carping pettiness. An unthinking heat of the moment error. Hoped you'd understand those nuances and accept my apology. That's all.
Bobby
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Gentle Observation: Late dawning, to be sure, but slowly becoming aware that misunderstandings, unintended interpersonal frictions
which result, along with the spawning of public detractors may serve a useful purpose. Crazy as it seems, such undesirable developments
and consequences do, in fact, apparently provide the opportunity of traction for the expression of one's principles, bedrock values and
grace orientation to the foibles and gaffs of our common humanity. RHP General Forum wasn't designed as a verbal demolition derby.
gb
16 May 08
Originally posted by Very RustyI always found it rather amusing when I was referred to as "he", "Brother Nord" (my favourite) and the like. If someone would refer to me as "he/she" or "xe" or would refer to my "man/womanhood", I would assume that xe's not certain about my gender and doesn't want to get it wrong. If that person were someone I had told my real name, I'd probably be a bit surprised, but unless it's someone I know very well, I would probably think that xe must have forgotten about the PM or mixed me up with someone else, or that xe wasn't sure whether I'd like to reveal my gender in the public fora. I am quite sure it would never have occurred to me previous to this thread that it might have been meant as an insult. If someone wants to make a sexist insult, I'd expect a reference only to the gender you are not. I don't think something like "you cry like a boy/girl" would work very well as an insult. They would also be likely to refer to a negative gender stereotype rather than something positive that is applied to both genders alike.
I am sure you would like everyone refering to you as male, or perhaps you would, not everyone does.
Anyway, Grampy has explained what happened. That explanation makes a lot more sense to me than an interpretation of his post as a sexist insult coming out of the blue. But of course you are free to believe whatever you want.
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Originally posted by NordlysWe have exchanged P.M.'s he even knows my name. Why do you say crap, when you don't have a clue what is going on ? You just like to get involved?
I always found it rather amusing when I was referred to as "he", "Brother Nord" (my favourite) and the like. If someone would refer to me as "he/she" or "xe" or would refer to my "man/womanhood", I would assume that xe's not certain about my gender and doesn't want to get it wrong. If that person were someone I had told my real name, I'd probably be a bit su ng out of the blue. But of course you are free to believe whatever you want.
When you are not a woman and the person knows you are not a woman it is indeed insulting. I am sure you would like everyone refering to you as male, or perhaps you would, not everyone does.
Keep in mind the post was directed to me, not to everyone in general, not that everyone and their dog can't comment on it. That is where the insult comes from.
**Since you want to pick once sentence from what said, I am posting in reply to you the aforementioned that was actually said to you.**
I am sure Bobby and I will work it out, if that is a major concern of yours. I indeed will think, (believe) what I want as you and all other posters do.
16 May 08
Originally posted by Very RustyMy dog says "Woof" 😛
We have exchanged P.M.'s he even knows my name. Why do you say crap, when you don't have a clue what is going on ? You just like to get involved?
When you are not a woman and the person knows you are not a woman it is indeed insulting. I am sure you would like everyone refering to you as male, or perhaps you would, not everyone does.
Keep in mind ...[text shortened]... concern of yours. I indeed will think, (believe) what I want as you and all other posters do.