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07 Oct 05
07 Oct 05
Originally posted by PawnokeyholeLol
Mokko, your first claim is not a sufficient explanation, and your second statement appears to make an unrelated claim.
As regards your first claim, someone could have very low self-worth, yet still steer clear of donkey-holes and deadbeats, just because they are unpleasant to be with. Unless, of course, the low self-esteemer had no other options and ...[text shortened]... possible explanation. But if so, this has nothing to do with your level of self-esteem, does it?
No. It's just something I've heard. My ex is the biggest arse I've ever met in my life. He is putting me through unbelievable hell right now. Did I know it was going to turn out this way? No. He was fun to be with and despite all the early warning sidns I fell in love with him. The heart is funny that way. I have been with wonderfull men as well who treated me like gold. I was too young to realize it at the time. Again the heart wants what the heart wants.
Did I know this guy was an arse? Probably, yes. Did I put myself into the situation anyway? Yes. Am I paying the ultimate price for it now? Yes. Will I be so quick to repeat my mistakes in the future? No. Live and learn.
But I wouldn't deny that kind of pasionate love to anybody. Despite all the bad that I've had to endure I at least can still hold on to the good that came out of it.
07 Oct 05
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Originally posted by mokkoYou sound sooo confused
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No. It's just something I've heard. My ex is the biggest arse I've ever met in my life. He is putting me through unbelievable hell right now. Did I know it was going to turn out this way? No. He was fun to be with and despite all the early warning sidns I fell in love with him. The heart is funny that way. I have been with wonderfull men as well who ...[text shortened]... l the bad that I've had to endure I at least can still hold on to the good that came out of it.
08 Oct 05
Originally posted by mokkoGeez, what a confused little woman, one post, she claims she's super-mom having this great minimum wage job with the world as her oyster, then the next, reality kicks in.
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No. It's just something I've heard. My ex is the biggest arse I've ever met in my life. He is putting me through unbelievable hell right now. Did I know it was going to turn out this way? No. He was fun to be with and despite all the early warning sidns I fell in love with him. The heart is funny that way. I have been with wonderfull men as well who ...[text shortened]... l the bad that I've had to endure I at least can still hold on to the good that came out of it.
I think men turn assholish on you because you confuse them the way you confuse yourself! Men get frustrated when women confuse them and when women don't make it clear what they want!
You need to change yourself, I suggest making a checklist of "what I want in a man", write down anything that comes to mind, even though it's stupid. Next, write, "ok, what was stupid, picky, or can do without, that can be omited from the 'what I want list' list. Last, make a "what I don't want under any circumstance" list. I will help you a bit for starters:
For example, under the "what I don't want under any circumstance" list, write down: Bowmann, and from there, the rest should be easy.
08 Oct 05
Originally posted by UmalakasI bet this advice is taken, judging by how sensitively it was delivered.
Geez, what a confused little woman, one post, she claims she's super-mom having this great minimum wage job with the world as her oyster, then the next, reality kicks in.
I think men turn assholish on you because you confuse them the way you confuse yourself! Men get frustrated when women confuse them and when women don't make it clear what they want! ...[text shortened]... ant under any circumstance" list, write down: Bowmann, and from there, the rest should be easy.
08 Oct 05
Originally posted by UmalakasMy list of what I want in a man:
Geez, what a confused little woman, one post, she claims she's super-mom having this great minimum wage job with the world as her oyster, then the next, reality kicks in.
I think men turn assholish on you because you confuse them the way you confuse yourself! Men get frustrated when women confuse them and when women don't make it clear what they want! ...[text shortened]... ant under any circumstance" list, write down: Bowmann, and from there, the rest should be easy.
1) Not assume that I want a man.