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Originally posted by mokko
Both, doing well in maths and science, as I did, as well as some friends who went on to power engineering, instramentation and geophysics. Just to name a few.
but are they the majority in those fields, because that isn't the case here, although it may tied in a decade or so.

My point was that women shouldn't dumb themselves down though, I was never arguing that they weren't good at science/math.

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Originally posted by mokko
Well as for cultural pressure, when I attended college there was hardly a man to be found. It was mainly women who were exceeding in the maths and sciences as the few guys that were in attendance were often too preoccupied with getting laid.
the matriarchy looms in canada ... how long will it take? ...

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Originally posted by UmbrageOfSnow
but are they the majority in those fields, because that isn't the case here, although it may tied in a decade or so.

My point was that women shouldn't dumb themselves down though, I was never arguing that they weren't good at science/math.
No they are definately not in the majority but they do tend to do better acedemically.

I guess it's a little different here were I live due to the demand of workers in various "male" fields. They can't get enough people here to fill all the positions needed in order to keep up production, therefore women have an overwhelming success rate in fields they might not otherwise have considered.

It's the norm here to meet plenty of women in typically male orientated work. Welders, heavy haulers, electricians ect. Because of the enviroment here it's not the norm to see women dumbing themselves down. They are just as competetive in every field of education and career. About the only women considered to be dumb here are the ones who cater to the men instead of compete with them.

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is there even a word for a male slut? is it "playah"? that's relatively recent to the mainstream (if it's there yet ... and the opposite of a pejorative to lots of people ...)

sonhouse, if the girlfriend has a baby out of wedlock she's more likely to raise it in her parents' house than yours ... maybe that's where it comes from ... (assuming she moves to any parents' house ...)

plus, the baby would definitely be hers, but as the for the father, who could say? ... maybe that's where it comes from ... paternity testing is relatively late to the scene also ...

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Originally posted by mokko
Hey, there are men who do that as well.
Name one.

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Originally posted by Bowmann
Name one.
I know several men that have sole custody of their children and play the role of both mother and father while the woman simply walks away and goes on with her life. It's not the norm but it does happen.

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Originally posted by mokko
...while the woman simply walks away and goes on with her life.
Doesn't sound like she was kicked out.

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Originally posted by Bowmann
Doesn't sound like she was kicked out.
So are you saying that all men who are not apart of their childrens lives get kicked out by the women?

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Originally posted by mokko
So are you saying that all men who are not apart of their childrens lives get kicked out by the women?
Everything you say seems very unclear.


Do you believe in the family unit? By that I mean mother, father and child. That's a simple enough question, I would have thought.

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Originally posted by Bowmann
Everything you say seems very unclear.


Do you believe in the family unit? By that I mean mother, father and child. That's a simple enough question, I would have thought.
Yes I believe in the family unit but I also live in reality. The reality is there isn't much value anymore in the traditional family unit.

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Originally posted by mokko
Yes I believe in the family unit but I also live in reality. The reality is there isn't much value anymore in the traditional family unit.
I wonder why that is.

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Originally posted by Bowmann
I wonder why that is.
Because men are selfish. 😛

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Originally posted by mokko
Because men are selfish. 😛
And women simply want the right to be selfish too. Is that it?

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Originally posted by Bowmann
And women simply want the right to be selfish too. Is that it?
No, women want men to be unselfish, like we are. 😏

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Originally posted by mokko
No, women want men to be unselfish, like we are. 😏
And therein lies the root of your hypocrisy.

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