31 Dec 05
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Originally posted by sasquatch672Yeah, I've been in that situation many times. Saying too much, thinking too much...etc. I'm married now though, and have never felt that way (or done any of those stupid things) since the day we got together. I think when you find the right person, you're totally (and I mean totally) secure and don't have to resort to that sort of stuff. I also think that when you feel that way so early on in a relationship (the honeymoon period), it can't be a good sign for the future.
So my (new) girlfriend (of three months) went home to see her family over the holidays, five days away. I myself stayed home and worked, and the gloom of having family scattered all over the country got to me. She flew home, I picked her up, she was very cheerful, and we spent about a half an hour together before I went home. Told her I was probably pai ick me while I'm down, it won't be the greatest sin ever committed.
I have to admit, I was tempted to kick you while you were down, but honestly, I've spent too much time going through the same BS you're going through. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Good luck.
31 Dec 05
Originally posted by rbmorrisditto
Yeah, I've been in that situation many times. Saying too much, thinking too much...etc. I'm married now though, and have never felt that way (or done any of those stupid things) since the day we got together. I think when you find the right person, you're totally (and I mean totally) secure and don't have to resort to that sort of stuff. I also think th ...[text shortened]... rough the same BS you're going through. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Good luck.
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31 Dec 05
Originally posted by sasquatch672We're all in that same boat, bro.
So I have no clue at all why I suck so bad at women.
It appears you've got it bad. I'm talking way bad. You're not operating on a rational level anymore. You've been blown off the deck and you're over the highside. Try not to let on to her just how badly you're afflicted again. Playing it a wee bit cooler may be a better approach. If she thinks she's got you without too much effort at all, she'll wonder why you were so easy to land.
31 Dec 05
Originally posted by eagles54Just saw the pub ban thread...
We're all in that same boat, bro.
It appears you've got it bad. I'm talking way bad. You're not operating on a rational level anymore. You've been blown off the deck and you're over the highside. Try not to let on to her just how badly you're afflicted again. Playing it a wee bit cooler may be a better approach. If she thinks she's got you without too much effort at all, she'll wonder why you were so easy to land.
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She's on to you...