11 Sep 05
Originally posted by firebug003Obviously there are various options to consider:
Ok people. Lets just say that I could lose a bet of 200 dollers on this so help me out. Just give me some advice on what to say to her. I really dont know what went wrong. I really do like her and for a while it was the same for her as well. I went down to her house one day and it was all hugs and such. Then the next day she just turned me away. A whole m ...[text shortened]... think I might need to contact a spirital adviser to help me out. Oh, it's just so confuseing.😞
1. She has no empathic abilities.
Answer: Leave her. You're better off without her.
2. You did something wrong.
Answer: Ask what. See if you can work it out.
What to say:
Ask her what's the matter. Once you have her answer, no matter what it is, ignore her.
Song to listen to: The Beatles: "Let it be".
Seriously. If she cares for you she'll contact you again. Let it be and get on with your life. Then if she calls, things might work out. If she doesn't, you've got on with your life and it's no big loss.
11 Sep 05
Originally posted by firebug003Sorry if I have got this wrong but does your 'whole month of happiness' mean you only knew her for a month? if so well I would say you didn't do anything wrong other than to assume you both were at a certain level when one month isn't enough to know.
Ok people. Lets just say that I could lose a bet of 200 dollers on this so help me out. Just give me some advice on what to say to her. I really dont know what went wrong. I really do like her and for a while it was the same for her as well. I went down to her house one day and it was all hugs and such. Then the next day she just turned me away. A whole m ...[text shortened]... think I might need to contact a spirital adviser to help me out. Oh, it's just so confuseing.😞
11 Sep 05
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Originally posted by Freddie2004Sorry. I will be unavaliable for advice from Sundays from 1-8pm EST and then again from 8:30 - midnightish as long as the NFL season lasts.
where's our Glorious Coconut? he could help out here.
Here's my advice here sir. Go to a homecoming dance that isn't at your highschool, and be very upfront/cute with the girls. Ask them their name, and if they'd like to hold your cute little hand. The worst that can happen is a girl you never knew is disgusted, and the best is that you get laid that night. Hopefully you'll find one that will like you and want to retain contact.
Also... ALWAYS open doors for them. Especially car doors. Seriously, girls will melt over that.
Edit: as for the current girl, don't bet on stuff. You're screwed if she finds out, and not in the good way. I'd say write a love letter telling her of your true passion.
12 Sep 05
Say something along the lines of you'll give the money over as if you lost the bet just to be with her. Phrase it more romantically and make sure you are really willing to give up the money. If being with her isn't worth far more than the money, just let her go. Being single isn't so bad (5 nights a week anyway).
12 Sep 05
Not so easy people. OK, I knew her for the better part of half a year. The bet I made was with two men, one about 70 miles away who has no idea who she is. The other is not even sure if I am going to pay up anyway.
I have already wrote love letters,sent her pricey gifts, talked to her straght forward. What next
12 Sep 05
Originally posted by firebug003maybe she read your career plan in the Anime thread:
Ok people. Lets just say that I could lose a bet of 200 dollers on this so help me out. Just give me some advice on what to say to her. I really dont know what went wrong. I really do like her and for a while it was the same for her as well. I went down to her house one day and it was all hugs and such. Then the next day she just turned me away. A whole m ...[text shortened]... think I might need to contact a spirital adviser to help me out. Oh, it's just so confuseing.😞
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