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17 May 07
18 May 07
Originally posted by adam warlockof course everybody feels miserable breaking up, but did you tell her "I really really like you, you're a great girl, but I'm just currently in a place where I can't be with anyone" and cry while saying it?
One time time I stopped seeing a girl because I wanted to and I felt miserable. It's funny but it can be true. It wasn't the same thing for me but she loved me a lot and that made me feel like the lowest crook.
18 May 07
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Originally posted by wormwoodI didn't cry while saying it, but I was very sad and the words barely could come out off my mouth. I did cry later when I was on my own but I cried for knowing that I was making her very sad. I still cared a lot for her and there I was breaking her heart. I saw myself as a bastard for quite a while.
of course everybody feels miserable breaking up, but did you tell her "I really really like you, you're a great girl, but I'm just currently in a place where I can't be with anyone" and cry while saying it?
But girls can be more emotional than us. Yesterday I was seeing "The Lion King" with my girl and she cried a lot when Mufasa died. 😕 Yes it was said but she's 23 and that's only a cartoon for god's Sake! On the other hand she cries a lot. When we saw Kidulthood she also cried at the end.
Edit: The bit "It's not you it's me" is wholly untruthful I agree with you on that.
18 May 07
Originally posted by adam warlockwell okay then. I guess I'm just a heartless bastard, because I'm not even near crying when I break up with someone.
I didn't crywhie saying it, but I was very sad and the words barely could come out off my mouth. I did cry later when I was on my own but I cried for knowing that I was making her very sad. I still cared a lot for her and there I was breaking her heart. I saw myself as a bastard for quite a while.
But girls can be more emotional than us. Yesterday I wa ...[text shortened]... Sake! On the other hand she cries a lot. When we saw Kidulthood she also cried at the end.
I know all about girls being emotional though. one ex-girlfriend could burst into tears in the middle of the night, because she had started thinking about poor chinese orphans or whatever. but that was the hormones talking, a week later it wouldn't have happened.
btw, she gave me the "it's not you..., not in a place..., crying", the whole treatment. I tried not to watch x-files on the tv too much while she went through the act, y'know, to not appear too blunt or insensitive. but I still was pretty screwed up for a couple of years. it doesn't take tears to be a wreck. we're still friends, but I didn't go to the wedding.
18 May 07
Originally posted by wormwoodI wouldn't go too. Pfff!
well okay then. I guess I'm just a heartless bastard, because I'm not even near crying when I break up with someone.
I know all about girls being emotional though. one ex-girlfriend could burst into tears in the middle of the night, because she had started thinking about poor chinese orphans or whatever. but that was the hormones talking, a week later it ...[text shortened]... doesn't take tears to be a wreck. we're still friends, but I didn't go to the wedding.
18 May 07
I recently broke up with my gf of 1 year... it was hard and I'm not sure exactly why it happened.... deep down in my soul I knew that she wasn't the right person for me... I didn't know why and I still don't... she was the most amazing person. Far better than me. You know, I sometimes think that women are more in-tune with a deeper side of life than men are... they are really emotional beings.
The funny thing is that now that we are broken up we are both re-discovering ourselves... and I don't know if we could have done that while we were together, so really in the long-run it was probably a good thing... I've come to realize that there is good and bad in everything, we must choose to look towards the good parts rather then the bad.
18 May 07
Originally posted by ChessJesterWhat's her phone number? Maybe I'll give her a call. 😛
I recently broke up with my gf of 1 year... it was hard and I'm not sure exactly why it happened.... deep down in my soul I knew that she wasn't the right person for me... I didn't know why and I still don't... she was the most amazing person. Far better than me. You know, I sometimes think that women are more in-tune with a deeper side of life than men ...[text shortened]... and bad in everything, we must choose to look towards the good parts rather then the bad.