One thing I've learned...

Originally posted by coquette
guys don't mean it when they say they love you

A few do.

Originally posted by shortcircuit
There are no guarantees in anything. There are many probabilities, many possibilities,
but no certainties (with the exception of death and paying taxes or course).

Some only die Shorty.

Originally posted by coquette
guys don't mean it when they say they love you

Some do, some don't..it depends which ones you choose to mix with :p.

Originally posted by Suzianne
You should always say "Thank you", "I love you" and "Great job" to someone every day, and mean it. (Not necessarily the same person, spread it around, make three people happy, instead of just one.)

Meaning it is the important bit. It won't help you one bit if you don't mean it, AND the people you say them to will know, making the end result very different.

What happens if one day, you don't bump into 3 people that do something for you warranting thanks; and you don't cross paths with 3 people you genuinely love; and less than 3 people actually do a great job?

Is that when you resort to lying and giving false praise, or, do you just break your hard fast rule, and reduce yourself to a blithering hypocrite?


By the way.


I love you. 🙂

Originally posted by shortcircuit
Great job Suzi!!

😀

Originally posted by sumydid
What happens if one day, you don't bump into 3 people that do something for you warranting thanks; and you don't cross paths with 3 people you genuinely love; and less than 3 people actually do a great job?

Is that when you resort to lying and giving false praise, or, do you just break your hard fast rule, and reduce yourself to a blithering hypocrite?


By the way.


I love you. 🙂

Simple, don't say it if you don't mean it, period.

I mean, yeah, you could be stuck in the backwoods with no one around, but if so, why?

The object here is to be more connected with the other humans you share your life with. Go on, it's always worth the risk.

Originally posted by Suzianne
Simple, don't say it if you don't mean it, period.

Ok then, so there is that chance that you will not succeed in your goal of 3-3-3. (Are you a fan of Herman Cain, btw?)


I mean, yeah, you could be stuck in the backwoods with no one around, but if so, why?
Maybe I don't like people.

The object here is to be more connected with the other humans you share your life with. Go on, it's always worth the risk.
Maybe that's the object, but the goal potentially goes down in flames, likely proportionate to how many people you rub elbows with on a daily basis.

Maybe your goal is best suited for active socialites with lots of friends and I presume you are in that group. But the rest of us are left in the desolate cold, feeling like complete failures because we can't achieve the goals you set forth for us.

🙁

I'm depressed now. Thanks a lot.

:'(

Originally posted by sumydid
But the rest of us are left in the desolate cold, feeling like complete failures because we can't achieve the goals you set forth for us.

One thing I've learned in life is that you can achieve anything, if you really put your mind and soul and time into to it! 😉

-m.

Originally posted by mikelom
[b] One thing I've learned in life is that you can achieve anything, if you really put your mind and soul and time into to it! 😉

-m.[/b]

I would like to see you diving, without any form of artifical aid, to a depth of 10,000 feet beneath the sea.

Please put your mind and soul and time into this.

Originally posted by adramforall
I would like to see you diving, without any form of artifical aid, to a depth of 10,000 feet beneath the sea.

Please put your mind and soul and time into this.

If he comes back as Aquaman, I'm coming to get you.

Originally posted by Suzianne
If he comes back as Aquaman, I'm coming to get you.

I am Aquaman. Come and get me!! 😛😉