11 Jul 05
Originally posted by CoconutIf she consistently proves to you multiple times that she cannot be depended upon for a steady relationship, why do you even bother? I say find someone who you can trust.
I let her go a year ago. in december we were back together. in january she cheated. I forgave. In march and april we took a break (her idea). She came back to me again. My only stress today is that she admits she still likes the guy that she cheated with. I know that other feelings are natural, I just have my own anxiety mixed in to mess my mind up.
But she says I'm the one. That IS good right?
11 Jul 05
Originally posted by WildfireIt's been good recently. It's been me that is often unstable in my emotions and such. I probably need anxiety medication. So even when things are solid, they can seem crumbley in my own mind. It's true, we've had a rocky past, right now though I really think we are doing well.
If she consistently proves to you multiple times that she cannot be depended upon for a steady relationship, why do you even bother? I say find someone who you can trust.
11 Jul 05
Originally posted by CoconutDo you hear a ticking?
It's been good recently. It's been me that is often unstable in my emotions and such. I probably need anxiety medication. So even when things are solid, they can seem crumbley in my own mind. It's true, we've had a rocky past, right now though I really think we are doing well.
11 Jul 05
Originally posted by CoconutHello Sucker!
I let her go a year ago. in december we were back together. in january she cheated. I forgave. In march and april we took a break (her idea). She came back to me again. My only stress today is that she admits she still likes the guy that she cheated with. I know that other feelings are natural, I just have my own anxiety mixed in to mess my mind up.
But she says I'm the one. That IS good right?
11 Jul 05
Originally posted by CoconutAfter someonte cheats in a relationship, it is never the same again.
I let her go a year ago. in december we were back together. in january she cheated. I forgave. In march and april we took a break (her idea). She came back to me again. My only stress today is that she admits she still likes the guy that she cheated with. I know that other feelings are natural, I just have my own anxiety mixed in to mess my mind up.
But she says I'm the one. That IS good right?
What i feel about that relationship is both of you are just having a good time together.
Don't fall in love with that girl cause you could be hurt.
11 Jul 05
Originally posted by CoconutFrom a womans point of view........
It's been good recently. It's been me that is often unstable in my emotions and such. I probably need anxiety medication. So even when things are solid, they can seem crumbley in my own mind. It's true, we've had a rocky past, right now though I really think we are doing well.
Young love is powerful and blinding. It's a whole new range of emotions we need to explore and come to terms with. It's just unfortunate that with this inexperience comes a certain lapse in judgment.
Being cheated on is painfull and humiliating. It causes us to doubt ourselves and our own value. People who cheat within a relationship are looking for an affirmation of their worth; searching externally for something that can only be found internally.
In order for anyone to truly love us we need to first love ourselves. This comes from self acceptance and respect of our own identity and emotions. To allow someone to disregard and trample on our emotions is saying that we are not valuable.
Respect yourself first. Love isn't a test of overcoming adversity, it's kind, trusting and respectful of emotion.
Good luck.
11 Jul 05
Originally posted by CoconutThat seems very good that she says that . Good for her that is . You say you may need anxiety medication , but you think things are pretty good ? I think you may need to listen to the red lights and claxons that your gut is sending you , and that you're suppressing . You sound like you're completely wrapped around her axle and very insecure about her commitment , dude . That doesn't make for a good relationship .
I let her go a year ago. in december we were back together. in january she cheated. I forgave. In march and april we took a break (her idea). She came back to me again. My only stress today is that she admits she still likes the guy that she cheated with. I know that other feelings are natural, I just have my own anxiety mixed in to mess my mind up.
But she says I'm the one. That IS good right?
11 Jul 05
Originally posted by mokkoNice Post, it seems RHPmembers are saving recs here.
From a womans point of view........
Young love is powerful and blinding. It's a whole new range of emotions we need to explore and come to terms with. It's just unfortunate that with this inexperience comes a certain lapse in judgment.
Being cheated on is painfull and humiliating. It causes us to doubt ourselves and our own value. People who cheat wit ...[text shortened]... a test of overcoming adversity, it's kind, trusting and respectful of emotion.
Good luck.