16 Sep 09
Originally posted by tomtom232Sure, someone just claims to know something about me and has very bad, and later none arguments to back it up.
Yup, that and the fact that you're getting defensive. 😛
I have every right te be defensive lol.
Im not even trying to be particularly defensive, I cant care what others think they know of me. Just here for the argument, but cant have an argument if the other person isnt interested in backing up his(/her) claims.
16 Sep 09
Originally posted by zozozozoyou just don't get it yet, but you will. and some day you'll be listening to a young guy with unrealistic expectations about relationships, and know exactly why I said what I did.
Sure, someone just claims to know something about me and has very bad, and later none arguments to back it up.
I have every right te be defensive lol.
Im not even trying to be particularly defensive, I cant care what others think they know of me. Just here for the argument, but cant have an argument if the other person isnt interested in backing up his(/her) claims.
16 Sep 09
Originally posted by wormwoodI quote you:
you just don't get it yet, but you will. and some day you'll be listening to a young guy with unrealistic expectations about relationships, and know exactly why I said what I did.
"meaningless blablabla"
Why are my expectations unrealistic? Are you saying every relationship is crap? Are you suggesting I should get a relationship with a man to avoid pms issues?
Hope you will, at least try to, answer my questions this time.
This question is also still open:
"So the fact that I dont just jump into a relationship when I dont know if it would work out, ie, be a good relationship shows my inexperience with relationships?"
16 Sep 09
Originally posted by zozozozoI don't know why you keep bringing that up, I've said nothing like that, and as far as I can see neither has anyone else.
Hope you will, at least try to, answer my questions this time.
This question is also still open:
"So the fact that I dont just jump into a relationship when I dont know if it would work out, ie, be a good relationship shows my inexperience with relationships?"
suzianne said you're like bad wolf was (an obvious virgin), seitse said you should rehearse with the girl you obviously like enough to watch crap films with, sunburnt said she likes the idea, and I said there's nothing wrong with rehearsing. at which point you got defensive like obvious virgins do.
and about your irrelevant question itself: of course it doesn't. but things like thinking you could somehow rehearse relatioships by yourself, without getting into one, do show your inexperience. as well as various other things you've said.
I'm not saying these things to wind you up, I'm just telling you how it is. after you thought you wrote something bad because you didn't get suzianne's bad wolf - virgin joke.
16 Sep 09
Originally posted by wormwoodFirst of all let me thank you for your detailed reply.
I don't know why you keep bringing that up, I've said nothing like that, and as far as I can see neither has anyone else.
suzianne said you're like bad wolf was (an obvious virgin), seitse said you should rehearse with the girl you obviously like enough to watch crap films with, sunburnt said she likes the idea, and I said there's nothing wrong with rehe ...[text shortened]... ught you wrote something bad because you didn't get suzianne's bad wolf - virgin joke.
You said there was nothing bad about what I wrote (when I asked Suzianne what was bad about it (I indeed missed the joke, didnt know Bad Wolf was "an abvious virgin"😉).
Then you said: "it just shows how inexperienced you are with relationships" Not sure where you got that info from then? This is where i got 'defensive'.
"but things like thinking you could somehow rehearse relatioships by yourself,"
I never thought so. I replyd Seitse with "Rehearsing what? I can rehearse without a relationship." I thought "rehearsing" was used as a metafor for sex?