31 May 05
Originally posted by fiestaWell Diane, I am not arguing with you. Just telling you what I know. Actually, I am not an authority on whether you can get married while drunk. Has anyone here done it? I can probably guess as to whether or not you regretted it. I have a hard time feeling too much sympathy for someone who makes a mistake while drunk. I think that if you can be held responsible for choosing to drive while drunk, then you can be held responsible for choosing to get married while drunk. The decision you make may be irrational, but it is not irreversible in the case of marriage. Your assets might suffer some damage, that's just the price of your lesson.
ok see your point on the medical side of the tattoo thingy but then you get onto getting married while you are drunk well how can you make a rational decison when you are pis*ed...and I have never gotton married or been drunk or had a tattoo at the same time... all done on separate occasions. cheers for the info though !
Diane
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31 May 05
Originally posted by rheymanspoint taken .... no I wasnt arguing with you either ....just relaying my thoughts on your post...and nope i havent been drunk and made the mistake of getting married but have been drunk and I do actually find sympathy for certain mistakes people make when they are drunk,except of course getting behind the wheel of a car etc... and putting other peoples lives at risk
Well Diane, I am not arguing with you. Just telling you what I know. Actually, I am not an authority on whether you can get married while drunk. Has anyone here done it? I can probably guess as to whether or not you regretted it. I have a hard time feeling too much sympathy for someone who makes a mistake while drunk. I think that if you can be held re ...[text shortened]... e of marriage. Your assets might suffer some damage, that's just the price of your lesson.
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31 May 05
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Originally posted by Hand of HecateI have 3 1/2 tattoos (my backpiece still needs another ~8-10 hour's work done on it) and will only say one thing:
Thinking of getting a couple of tatoos as rememberances. Late in life maybe, but... I'm tired of living life with regrets. Might as well do what I want to do... Live Life.
Anyone get one and hate it? Good stories? Bad ones? ...[text shortened]... ons? Passing of friends & family? Special events? Pissed drunk?
Be very, very certain you want it done before even walking into the tattooists.
The vast majority of people that regret their tattoos got them just just because they looked cool, or are a "spur of the moment" descision, or a friend got one done, and the vast majority of those are ordinary "flash" (standard designs seen hanging on the walls). The best way to get inked is to have a specific reason, then talk to the tattooist about designs until it's perfect, and then go home and think very hard about whether you're certain of getting it done or not.
All mine, for example, have very specific reasons and meanings behind them, and were designed and drawn by myself with the exception of the last one.....it's beyond my artistic skills and my tattooist is a fantastic artist and, so I just gave him the rough design and he did a few drafts before starting the work.
It's never too late in life to get ink. My father didn't get his first tat until he was 50, and I know a couple other people who were older than him before they got their first. Also, the other poster was right, they can be addicitive.
31 May 05
Originally posted by fiestaWell, I also see your point about not being in the best frame of mind for the decision. However, if your paying a fee, and there are no consequences for marrying you, whoever is performing the ceremony is probably not too concerned about your frame of mind.
point taken .... no I wasnt arguing with you either ....just relaying my thoughts on your post...and nope i havent been drunk and made the mistake of getting married but have been drunk and I do actually find sympathy for certain mistakes people make when they are drunk,except of course getting behind the wheel of a car etc... and putting other peoples lives at risk
31 May 05
Originally posted by fiestaI got married twice when I was stone cold sober , and they were both mistakes . Maybe if I was drunk I wouldn't have .
point taken .... no I wasnt arguing with you either ....just relaying my thoughts on your post...and nope i havent been drunk and made the mistake of getting married but have been drunk and I do actually find sympathy for certain mistakes people make when they are drunk,except of course getting behind the wheel of a car etc... and putting other peoples lives at risk
Ps - Tatoos would have been less of a mistake , and less painful too .
31 May 05
Originally posted by SiskinI doubt any serious tattoo artist will tattoo a intoxicated person.
These guys are just wimps .... if you want a tattoo go to to a port city, drink a bottle or two of rum ... then you'll be in the ideal frame of mind to decide what you want ... you'll never regret it ... well not till you sober up anyway
01 Jun 05
Originally posted by Moldy Crowlooooool..... this is crazy!
A friend told me that they shave the area prior to tatooing it . He wanted to go to a tatoo parlor , have the guy shave his ass , then tell him he'd changed his mind and run out . It was kind of his twisted version of the flaming dog doo on the porch trick .
I was about to get a tatoo when I was 16. Thanks God I didn't do it. I was abroad and when returning home and telling my parents that I was gonna get one, they said they woudln't let me in the house if I would have gotten it.
01 Jun 05
Originally posted by Hand of Hecatei have many.. MANY tats.. beware.... they put crack in the ink.. your first wont ever be your last..lol
Thinking of getting a couple of tatoos as rememberances. Late in life maybe, but... I'm tired of living life with regrets. Might as well do what I want to do... Live Life.
Anyone get one and hate it? Good stories? Bad ones? Motivations? Passing of friends & family? Special events? Pissed drunk?