11 Nov 07
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Originally posted by rubberjaw30Sure, rj. Have fun. I'm off, too.
we are talking about cms, here.
anyway, I believe abortion is evil, and shouldn't be legal (except in cases of rape, or the mother's health is endangered) but I really don't want to spend the energy it takes to argue my case against abortion. so I sy we just agree to diagree. Abortion arguments never actually go anywhere. you have your opinion, and I ...[text shortened]... ree to disagree...
I gotta go watch the Florida game, so I'll be out probably til tomorrow.
But note I'm not trying to change your personal choice, just your criticism of other choices.
11 Nov 07
Originally posted by PalynkaIt's sometimes used against acne.
Girls should inform themselves first, of course. Some people are more at risk than others and should seek medical advice before.
That said, there are many who are not in risk groups that can take it with very minimal risk. I actually had a girlfriend that took it for medical reasons (something related with her hormonal cycles, don't remember it now).
11 Nov 07
Originally posted by IM4Y2NVThat if far from the only difference. There are many reasons, besides the fact that having a child outside of marriage isn't socially acceptable (which is a bad reason anyways) in many circles, for why sex outside of marriage is a bad idea. Foremost, the emotional stress of a sexual relationship is often too much for a realtionship that hasn't made the choice to love and care for each other in a marriage, and will tear the two people apart.
You are to kind.
Sex now sex later only difference is how much you will have before it's over. Then again they said what you don't know won't hurt you.
11 Nov 07
Originally posted by shavixmirWHEW! I enjoyed that.........
The first date:
You are all ready for your first date. Basically everything above is what you need to know. If everything goes well, then you can invite her out to do whatever you both find interesting. A couple of pointers do come to mind though:
Be interested in her. Let her do most of the talking. Girls like to talk about themselves, it makes them thi ...[text shortened]... of relaxing shoulder exercises.
Clean yourself!
Accept failure!
Wear a condom!
Party on!
Until I began reading the posts regarding pre-marital sex and abortion. Way to ruin the party, people.
Shav, I wouldn't correct you, but there are other aspects you might have missed. But it's a good start for BW! 😀
11 Nov 07
Originally posted by mrjonesvich321Are you saying that two people can't have sex outside of marriage AND choose to love and care for eachother? I don't believe that at all.
That if far from the only difference. There are many reasons, besides the fact that having a child outside of marriage isn't socially acceptable (which is a bad reason anyways) in many circles, for why sex outside of marriage is a bad idea. Foremost, the emotional stress of a sexual relationship is often too much for a realtionship that hasn't made the choice to love and care for each other in a marriage, and will tear the two people apart.
11 Nov 07
A girl once told me to "lose the socks" when I was in my undershorts, Now I see why. Some more humble advice:
1. What you say is not your "move" in the love game; your eyes, tone of voice, and facial expression are talking so loud, she can barely hear your words. You will only be aware of your words, "What did I say?" -- that's not the point.
2. So you will often be blind to your own blunders, like the chess player who does not see which of his moves was fatal, so he never learns. It's tough to know where the shoe pinches some times, though.
3. You can't date scared.
4. Pick up on her hints; it's not always a tease. She wants action, especially if she mentions a bikini wax she had recently or a boob job. She's ready to show off.
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