Originally posted by robbie carrobieYour are attempting to make a case that sexual violence, in the form of marital rape is, justified in Biblical scripture. That is how the text you have been typing for the last few pages is coming across as.
I am doing no such thing, i am merely questioning the criteria that you have set and the terms that you seem intent on using. If you find that troubling then perhaps debate is not for you, if you find it necessary to make these ludicrous accusations then again i suggest that objective reasoning is not for you.
04 Oct 15
Originally posted by robbie carrobieDo you think this "consent" you mention is for every hour of every day for the rest of the woman's life and that she must submit to sex at any time even if she doesn't want to do it?
This is an interesting point and I doubt it can, then again i am still left with the problem of how to deal with the fact that consent has already been given to yield ones body.
04 Oct 15
Originally posted by robbie carrobieSpeaking as a Christian, do you think this "consensual rape" you have mentioned is morally acceptable?
yes but the point is dear Noobster in what sense can it be considered rape if consent has already been given, is it consensual rape?
Originally posted by robbie carrobieRape is an act of violence, a women hasn't submitted herself to violence during her wedding vows. How can subjecting your wife to sexual violence be construed as honouring, loving and cherishing her? It can't.
yes but the point is dear Noobster in what sense can it be considered rape if consent has already been given, is it consensual rape?
04 Oct 15
Originally posted by robbie carrobie"The brutal truth is that the idea of "consensual rape" is nothing more an attempt to rationalize aggressor privilege and blame the victim. Rape is rape is rape."
yes but the point is dear Noobster in what sense can it be considered rape if consent has already been given, is it consensual rape?
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/shannon-mcclennan/consensual-rape-victim-blaming_b_3655444.html
An opinion piece by Shannon McClennan; worth a look.
Originally posted by Proper KnobShe has consented as has her husband to yield authority over there own bodies in the matter of sexual expression. If consent has been given I do not see why (and lets be clear about this you have failed to explain why), it can be construed as rape, by definition. This is not an attempt to justify anything, its an attempt for you to explain why it should be considered rape if consent has been given.
Rape is an act of violence, a women hasn't submitted herself to violence during her wedding vows. How can subjecting your wife to sexual violence be construed as honouring, loving and cherishing her? It can't.
Originally posted by robbie carrobieDo you consider this "consent" you mention is for every hour of every day for the rest of the woman's life to submit to sex at times of the husband's choosing, or do you think that "mutual consent" has to be there and implicit for each occasion that a married couple have sexual intercourse?
If consent has been given I do not see why (and lets be clear about this you have failed to explain why), it can be construed as rape, by definition.
04 Oct 15
Originally posted by robbie carrobieThe "consent" is surely to have a sexual relationship and for there to be sexual intercourse during the marriage, right? Surely it is does not mean that a wife must submit to sex against her will when she doesn't want to have sex? That can't be your perspective, surely?
This is not an attempt to justify anything, its an attempt for you to explain why it should be considered rape if consent has been given.
04 Oct 15
Originally posted by FMFYour link is almost entirely unrelated to the subject at hand and does not explain or even attempt to explain the phenomena of a christian's willingness to yield their bodies to their partners with the idea that if consent has already been given then how can it be construed as rape. No christian i know would willingly submit to rape never mind change their opinion about it half way through.
"The brutal truth is that the idea of "consensual rape" is nothing more an attempt to rationalize aggressor privilege and blame the victim. Rape is rape is rape."
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/shannon-mcclennan/consensual-rape-victim-blaming_b_3655444.html
An opinion piece by Shannon McClennan; worth a look.
04 Oct 15
Originally posted by FMFanother purely personal perspective viewpoint question that will be ignored.
Do you consider this "consent" you mention is for every hour of every day for the rest of the woman's life to sex at times of the husband's choosing, or do you think that "mutual consent" has to be there and implicit for each occasion that a married couple have sexual intercourse?
04 Oct 15
Originally posted by robbie carrobieYou mentioned "consensual rape" but now you don't want to discuss it, is that it?
Your link is almost entirely unrelated to the subject at hand and does not explain or even attempt to explain the phenomena of a christian's willingness to yield their bodies to their partners with the idea that if consent has already been given then how can it be construed as rape. No christian i know would willingly submit to rape never mind change their opinion about it half way through.
04 Oct 15
Originally posted by robbie carrobieWhat if the moment the man chooses to engage in "sexual expression" is a moment at which the woman does not want to engage in "sexual expression"?
She has consented as has her husband to yield authority over there own bodies in the matter of sexual expression.
Originally posted by FMFIf someone has consented to yielding authority over their own bodies how is it possible that they are now exercising their own will over it? surely they must renege on their original promise?
The "consent" is surely to have a sexual relationship and for there to be sexual intercourse during the marriage, right? Surely it is does not mean that a wife must submit to sex against her will when she doesn't want to have sex? That can't be your perspective, surely?