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Trump’s Failures Are Erasing the Memory of American Greatness
https://www.thedailybeast.com/trumps-failures-are-erasing-the-memory-of-american-greatness

An excerpt:
"What he does not realize is that there has always been one dominant emotion that has bound every American to one another. It is called loss. Every normal person is familiar with it, has experienced it at some level, losing a job, a paycheck, a house, health insurance, admission to a college, a roster spot on a Little League team. Losing hope. Losing a spouse, a child. Pride. Dignity. Self-respect. Losing a sense of place in your own small universe.

Comprehending loss is beyond his grasp. He casts himself as a stranger to loss. Losing something, anything or anyone could mark you as a loser. Not him."

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@suzianne said
An excerpt:
"What he does not realize is that there has always been one dominant emotion that has bound every American to one another. It is called loss. Every normal person is familiar with it, has experienced it at some level, losing a job, a paycheck, a house, health insurance, admission to a college, a roster spot on a Little League team. Losing hope. Losing a spouse, a ...[text shortened]... elf as a stranger to loss. Losing something, anything or anyone could mark you as a loser. Not him."
I do not think this is an emotion that is dominant among Americans.

I would have guessed that the most American emotion would be one that correlates well with the rugged individualism or high rates of piety that Americans have in the Western world.

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@philokalia said
I do not think this is an emotion that is dominant among Americans.

I would have guessed that the most American emotion would be one that correlates well with the rugged individualism or high rates of piety that Americans have in the Western world.
I believe what you are referring to is 'false piety'.

The evangelicals have this in spades.

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@suzianne said
I believe what you are referring to is 'false piety'.

The evangelicals have this in spades.
I am incapable of being a judge of such a thing, and I would caution others against judging it (Mt. 7:1).

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@philokalia said
I do not think this is an emotion that is dominant among Americans.

I would have guessed that the most American emotion would be one that correlates well with the rugged individualism or high rates of piety that Americans have in the Western world.
Loss surely correlates very well with high rates of piety, though the pious need not despair at loss.

"For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it."

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It’s a funny thing.
Of most Americans I’ve met in real life (certainly outside of the US) the trait that springs to mind is optimistic.
Unhealthy optimism... certainly compared to Scots, who, if anything, live in a cloud of morbid despair.

Seriously friendly, always willing to help and confidently optimistic.

I don’t know what’s wrong with our resident Americans. They certainly don’t sound like the gung-ho heroes who charge into burning buildings to save puppies.

Yet, seriously, most Americans I know personally, would.
Even when gung-ho fearless characters like myself are suggesting: “Perhaps we should think this one through...”
Off they charge, into the storm; absolutely sure they’ll be safe.

But, then again, none of the Americans I know personally voted for trump or wear MAGA hats... well, not publically anyways.

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@shavixmir said
It’s a funny thing.
Of most Americans I’ve met in real life (certainly outside of the US) the trait that springs to mind is optimistic.
Unhealthy optimism... certainly compared to Scots, who, if anything, live in a cloud of morbid despair.

Seriously friendly, always willing to help and confidently optimistic.

I don’t know what’s wrong with our resident Americans. T ...[text shortened]... f the Americans I know personally voted for trump or wear MAGA hats... well, not publically anyways.
I consider myself a realist. That said, I'm not immune to being idealistic. But as the quote stated in my OP, one common thread is, indeed, loss. I've lost someone, everyone I know has lost someone. Trump, however, fashions himself as someone who's never experienced loss, because to have experienced loss, in his mind, makes you a loser. In my mind, saying that you've never lost anyone or anything makes you a liar.

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@philokalia said
I am incapable of being a judge of such a thing, and I would caution others against judging it (Mt. 7:1).
As I said.

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@philokalia said
I am incapable of being a judge of such a thing, and I would caution others against judging it (Mt. 7:1).
Then why did you claim they were pious? Isn't that a judgement?

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@teinosuke said
Loss surely correlates very well with high rates of piety, though the pious need not despair at loss.

"For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it."
Interesting take.

I would not have thought that this would correlate with piety, but moreso something like... gratitude, or humility, but in a sense, I totally now see why loss is there.

Ironically, Suzianne thinks that a huge amount of Americans have a false sense of piety.

I wonder how this would correalte to some universal American emotion of loss.

Or is it that a third or a fourth of Americans (whatever the number may be) just do not have worth nor do they have to be considered in these questions.

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@athousandyoung said
Then why did you claim they were pious? Isn't that a judgement?
If I judge someone to be good in their heart and esteem them, I am loving my neighbor as myself.

When I accuse somebody (or tens of millions of people) of practicing false piety, I am opening myself up to the exact same accusation, and perhaps it is the case that I will not fair well.

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@shavixmir said
It’s a funny thing.
Of most Americans I’ve met in real life (certainly outside of the US) the trait that springs to mind is optimistic.
Unhealthy optimism... certainly compared to Scots, who, if anything, live in a cloud of morbid despair.

Seriously friendly, always willing to help and confidently optimistic.

I don’t know what’s wrong with our resident Americans. T ...[text shortened]... f the Americans I know personally voted for trump or wear MAGA hats... well, not publically anyways.
Exactly right.

I haven't heard many stories about the typical American, quietly floating about, introspective and full of great poise gained through the wisdom of loss.

I hear moreso of Americans that are loud, kind, share too much information, have a sense of pride.

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@philokalia said
I do not think this is an emotion that is dominant among Americans.

I would have guessed that the most American emotion would be one that correlates well with the rugged individualism or high rates of piety that Americans have in the Western world.
Self obsession and selfishness can often masquerade as “ rugged individualism”
What is rugged about a corporate fat cat in a leather recliner?
‘Rugged’ died with the last frontiersman and all that’s left in the western world is a choice between ‘individualism’ and ‘community’.
As for piety can you explain even to yourself how a ‘pious’ nation can end up with a whore monger for a President on the votes of those who claim to be the most ‘pious’?

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@philokalia said
If I judge someone to be good in their heart and esteem them, I am loving my neighbor as myself.

When I accuse somebody (or tens of millions of people) of practicing false piety, I am opening myself up to the exact same accusation, and perhaps it is the case that I will not fair well.
@philokalia said
“If I judge someone to be good in their heart and esteem them, I am loving my neighbor as myself.”
No your not! Your simply practising judgement and judging individuals as worthy or unworthy depending on how closely their beliefs and lifestyles correlate with yours. You could not be any less self aware.

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@kevcvs57 said
Self obsession and selfishness can often masquerade as “ rugged individualism”
What is rugged about a corporate fat cat in a leather recliner?
‘Rugged’ died with the last frontiersman and all that’s left in the western world is a choice between ‘individualism’ and ‘community’.
As for piety can you explain even to yourself how a ‘pious’ nation can end up with a whore monger for a President on the votes of those who claim to be the most ‘pious’?
Nobody said that rugged individualism is synonymous with corporate fat cats, or that piety is synonymous with Pres. Trump.

Nobody said that rugged individuals have to support that, or pious people have to vote for Pres. Trump.

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