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Originally posted by MissShell
CAd im so disapointed.. bridget jones is one of the best ever movies... everyone knows all women want a Mr Darcy....
It has something to do with his Victorian side-burns... must be 😉

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need your help.


I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.

First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat ...[text shortened]... scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).

What would you do ?
Be direct: "I'm not interested. Period. End of discussion. Walk away from me. You're acting like a stalker. If you contact me again at all, for any reason, I will name and shame." And then do so.

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Originally posted by reader1107
Be direct: "I'm not interested. Period. End of discussion. Walk away from me. You're acting like a stalker. If you contact me again at all, for any reason, I will name and shame." And then do so.
you know what i think he loves it!?!?!!

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Originally posted by MissShell
you know what i think he loves it!?!?!!
I love coffeee
I love tea
I love the java jive and it loves me.


😛

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
I love coffeee
I love tea
I love the java jive and it loves me.


😛
you are scary.. just a little darl... you cant love both coffee and tea... its just not right!

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need your help.


I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.

First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat ...[text shortened]... scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).

What would you do ?
You have the answer in your female friend.

Agree to meet your stalker in a public place.

Take your friend along who will act as your girlfriend for the day. She can be waiting 30 yards away from you, sitting on a park bench.

When your stalker meets you, your friend then approaches, introduces herself as your new girlfriend that you met through the dating agency and tells your stalker in no uncertain terms to take a running jump off the nearest cliff.

The direct Eff off approach is always the best. Even better when the Eff off of coming from a new girlfriend.

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Originally posted by adramforall
You have the answer in your female friend.

Agree to meet your stalker in a public place.

Take your friend along who will act as your girlfriend for the day. She can be waiting 30 yards away from you, sitting on a park bench.

When your stalker meets you, your friend then approaches, introduces herself as your new girlfriend that you met through ...[text shortened]... off approach is always the best. Even better when the Eff off of coming from a new girlfriend.
are you just the master of malt because you cant be serous about your master mind plan.. he should just ignore the stalker and she will get bored or he should stalk her back and she will freak out and go to the police.. thinking she is specail of course!!! 😛

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need your help.


I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.

First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat ...[text shortened]... scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).

What would you do ?
Do you have her number ???

b
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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need your help.


I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.

First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat ...[text shortened]... scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).

What would you do ?
lmao now thats not nice things to say about me huck baby!!!!!!!!!!😵

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Originally posted by bub
lmao now thats not nice things to say about me huck baby!!!!!!!!!!😵
i thought you were my stalker.. bub.. im so sad now 🙁

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Originally posted by MissShell
i thought you were my stalker.. bub.. im so sad now 🙁
WAIT TILL APRIL .............................HA HA😵

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Originally posted by bub
WAIT TILL APRIL .............................HA HA😵
only 4 or so weeks now darling you better get all my details so you can stalk me properly....

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need your help.


I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.

First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat ...[text shortened]... scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).

What would you do ?
People who join a dating service are serious about finding a companion. So yes, you did lead her on. SHe thought the two of you would become a couple and you'd fulfill the gap in her life. You thoughtless bastard! To think that once you met her you wouldn't fall head over heels in love with her? Would not be able to live without her!? What's wrong with you?

Ok, I did the same sorta thing you did about about 20 yrs ago. Met some of the worst people in the world. 🙁 Not saying that everyone who joins a dating service is an undesirable, mind you, it's just that there are a lot of people who join because they can't form a normal relationship.

So, if you are going to use a dating service then you must follow some rules to protect yourself. One of those rules would be to meet the person before you give out confidential information. Once you give that information out you're fuked if you want out.

Do you understand? You are meeting aggressive people who won't take "No" for an answer! People who have a problem with relationships; and suddenly have 24 hours a day on their hands to do nothing but stalk you!

Your only option is to change your phone number. Feel lucky, others have had to move to a different house or city! 😲

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Originally posted by MissShell
yes it was fabulous and if you say otherwise.. i think i should ban you seeing you dont have a star after your name..

get subscription and then post against me you @#$#!
I like your style, girl. Shows class.

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Originally posted by MissShell
yes it was fabulous and if you say otherwise.. i think i should ban you seeing you dont have a star after your name..

get subscription and then post against me you @#$#!
its far nobler to suffer the ads you know, charachter building, some of those ads can be very distracting. subscribers are so self-righteous, yet fools and their money are easily parted.
(Ps -i know youre really a fat bloke in a string vest and now your secret is out)

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