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@suzianne said
Maybe if you finish reading my post, you'd find out.
I did, it was a montage lifted from somewhere.
Hence my response.

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@suzianne said

AND you don't know me, yet you presuppose.
But you know FMF?

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@suzianne said
Not new.
Great that he has a new buddy like you to help keep him up to speed 😀

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Petty internet squabbles over words.
VR suggesting it'd be funny if someone got a nasty bacterial disease marked by rigidity and spasms of the voluntary muscles: and died.

As for the Carl Jung quote, taking what Suzanne referenced as the face value of the quote: These are things I wouldn't have experienced irritation at; had the other people not done them. Pretty sure I find the same things annoying about others that others find irritating. So what dose that say about me particularly? Well nothing unless other people don't find these things annoying...so it would be not only finding things irritating about others, but also knowing which irritants, if any, are uniquely irritating to me.

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@yo-its-me said
As for the Carl Jung quote, taking what Suzanne referenced as the face value of the quote: These are things I wouldn't have experienced irritation at; had the other people not done them. Pretty sure I find the same things annoying about others that others find irritating. So what dose that say about me particularly? Well nothing unless other people don't find these things a ...[text shortened]... y finding things irritating about others, but also knowing which irritants, if any are unique to me.
Before we settle in to how we are going to be, we are affected by what we feel about what the people we encounter say and do.

This process happens when we are more youthful or when we venture into an environment where people's values and words and deeds are different.

Beyond that, I don't think the things that irritate us have any effect on our understanding of ourselves anymore.

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@fmf said
Before we settle in to how we are going to be, we are affected by what we feel about what the people we encounter say and do.

This process happens when we are more youthful or when we venture into an environment where people's values and words and deed are different.

Beyond that, I don't think the things that irritate us have any effect on our understanding of ourselves anymore.
Yes, this too.
But also perhaps what Suzanne said on a deeper level perhaps. I don't know, I admit it was a bit too deep for me 🙂

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@yo-its-me said
Yes, this too.But also perhaps what Suzanne said on a deeper level perhaps.
Well, as interesting as the quote may be, I think many of the ideas of Carl Jung can be taken with a pinch of salt.

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@divegeester said
I did, it was a montage lifted from somewhere.
Hence my response.
You don't appreciate anything or anyone. I took five minutes out of my day to teach you something and you cough up a furball on it. Go ahead, look around, Einstein. Try to find what I wrote anywhere else. Yeah, you'll find pieces of it somewhere else maybe, but only because what I wrote was the truth. You know, facts? Do me a favor and don't ask me anything in my field of expertise ever again, okay? I take the time to answer your question and you crap all over it. So you can just piss off, cretin.

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@drewnogal said
Great that he has a new buddy like you to help keep him up to speed 😀
Not new.

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@yo-its-me said
Petty internet squabbles over words.
VR suggesting it'd be funny if someone got a nasty bacterial disease marked by rigidity and spasms of the voluntary muscles: and died.

As for the Carl Jung quote, taking what Suzanne referenced as the face value of the quote: These are things I wouldn't have experienced irritation at; had the other people not done them. Pretty sure I ...[text shortened]... gs irritating about others, but also knowing which irritants, if any, are uniquely irritating to me.
Well, this is where I was headed, but I also felt I was losing most of the readers, and so wrapped it up early. The "darkness" of each person's "shadow", or "id" is highly variable. Some let the "shadow" consume them more than others. Personal growth lies in controlling this part of us. Some have greater control over it than others, and this is what determines whether or not they project as much as others. The quest for knowlege of self is how we move past certain mental processes that can trip us up.

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@suzianne said
Well, this is where I was headed, but I also felt I was losing most of the readers, and so wrapped it up early. The "darkness" of each person's "shadow", or "id" is highly variable. Some let the "shadow" consume them more than others. Personal growth lies in controlling this part of us. Some have greater control over it than others, and this is what determines whether or ...[text shortened]... s. The quest for knowlege of self is how we move past certain mental processes that can trip us up.
I can tell this is your field. Thanks for explaining it to me, think I get it now

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@suzianne said
Do me a favor and don't ask me anything in my field of expertise ever again, okay?
You’re an “expert” in a field you have no formal qualification in?

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@divegeester said
You’re an “expert” in a field you have no formal qualification in?
Hypocrite gooster, you think you're an expert in pretty much every field, except for chess of course. 😛 🙂

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@suzianne said
Well, this is where I was headed, but I also felt I was losing most of the readers, and so wrapped it up early. The "darkness" of each person's "shadow", or "id" is highly variable. Some let the "shadow" consume them more than others. Personal growth lies in controlling this part of us. Some have greater control over it than others, and this is what determines whether or ...[text shortened]... s. The quest for knowlege of self is how we move past certain mental processes that can trip us up.
The "darkness" of each person's "shadow", or "id" is highly variable. Some let the "shadow" consume them more than others. Personal growth lies in controlling this part of us. Some have greater control over it than others, and this is what determines whether or not they project as much as others.

Interesting.

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