Originally posted by rckleinSeriously? Have you seen the posts in these forums? Remember, we're all chess players here, and therefore all borderline psychotic, sadistic and paranoid. If we weren't, we'd be playing tiddlywinks instead, or the game of geese. Nobody wants to be friends with chess players, not even other chess players. Hey, be grateful for small mercies: we could've been professional Monopoly players. At least we've not sunk that low.
So I get that this is a chess site and not facebook, and I know this thread will be highjacked, but why are people so not interested in being friends on here?
Richard
Originally posted by Shallow BlueYou coming to my next BBQ?
Seriously? Have you seen the posts in these forums? Remember, we're all chess players here, and therefore all borderline psychotic, sadistic and paranoid. If we weren't, we'd be playing tiddlywinks instead, or the game of geese. Nobody wants to be friends with chess players, not even other chess players. Hey, be grateful for small mercies: we could've been professional Monopoly players. At least we've not sunk that low.
Richard
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Originally posted by rckleinOh I think we are all mostly friends to some degree or another, in the limited way that we could be friends on an internet site.
So I get that this is a chess site and not facebook, and I know this thread will be highjacked, but why are people so not interested in being friends on here?
Stick around for a while and you will get to know the personalities a bit more. There are all sorts here.
Originally posted by rckleinI don't think people here are generally less interested in being friends than people elsewhere. But most people don't want to be friends with complete strangers. Try walking up to random people on the street and ask them if they want to be your friend. I doubt you'll have much success. They'll have to know you a bit before they'll consider becoming your friend. If you participate for a while in the forums here, maybe join a clan (you'd need to be a subscriber for that) or a club (those are open for non-subs), and start your games with a friendly message that lets your opponent know you wouldn't mind some conversation in the game, you may find after a few weeks or months that you have found friends without asking for them.
So I get that this is a chess site and not facebook, and I know this thread will be highjacked, but why are people so not interested in being friends on here?