13 Apr 05
Originally posted by the dominator"Can lead" and "did lead" are two very different things though. We can't punish people for what they might do.
yes, it is!
it shows that you have a particular interest in someone else, which can lead to being unfaithful!!!
-dom (doctor love)😛
If a married man calls his ex and they engage in a little frisky time on the phone, without his current wife's knowledge, then yeah he's sneaking around. Not exactly full blown fornication, but I'm sure the guy's wife would have something to say on the issue.
On the other hand (no pun intended) if you're pleasuring yourself while on the phone with someone else and your current spouse/partner is aware of it, then I'd say have all the fun you can.
13 Apr 05
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Originally posted by BowmannI disagree. When some one says "Will you marry me?" And the other one says "Yes, I will". You have married. You have made a solemn vow before God and sometimes an entire ball park full of fans 😀 that you will live together and love each other forever. That is why the whole idea of the groom having sex with a lap dancer or whomever at the batchelor party is wrong.
Many women consider a man's use of pr0n an act of infidelity.
Most men don't, however.
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And being engaged is NOT being married! The whole point is to test the water first, and to make sure you're not likely to drown...
People don't date after they are engaged , do they?
That';s because they are committed. The time between the engagement and the wedding is just the time it takes to organize the wedding.
13 Apr 05
Originally posted by shavixmirJust for the record and perhaps it doesn't matter, but I was not refering to myself. I am very happily married and while my wife can be a collosal pain in the patoocus at times she's an angel for putting up with my crap.... in case you hadn't noticed, I'm a little... odd shall we say?
I think the bases is probably: What have you agreed to with your partner?
If you agree that phone sex is cheating, then it is. If you agree that it isn't, go ahead and enjoy a guilt free bout of sex per telephone.
If you haven't discussed this with your partner...perhaps you should.
Sex while important isn't the focal point of my life or even my love life. While a quickie now and again is fun, an evening of a romantic dinner, a massage, etc... is prefered to keep things interesting.
13 Apr 05
I have never understood all this phone sex nonsense.
Whats it all about?
What do the participants get from it?
Are people who "do it" afraid of the real thing?
Do you need a condom?
Are you safe from Aids and venereal diseases?
Do people smoke afterwards?
Am I missing out by not participating?
What do people say if they don't want to meet the person again?
So many questions.
14 Apr 05
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Originally posted by adramforallYeah, I have to agree with you. Phone sex has to be a really terrible thing. As I understand it, the idea is that the person on the other end of the line turns you on with your fantasies and you masterbate from that.
[b]I have never understood all this phone sex nonsense.
Whats it all about?
What do the participants get from it?
Are people who "do it" afraid of the real thing?
HAHAHAH, I don't think I could masterbate while talking to some bimbo on the phone! But apparently some people (guys) do. 🙁
One of my computer buddies told me about his male neighbor, who had racked up $1200 in phone charges from talking to the phone sex hotlines.
Dang! I don't use hookers, but I would think that you could get a lot of action from them for $1200! 😕