Originally posted by demonseedPerhaps if you are female or married you may not have a problem with Mike preceding his remarks with:
Obviously, I have no problems with Mike being happy (and his wife). I am glad for them, as I have already typed it seems like they have a had a rough ride of late, to put it mildly. My only problem was that Mike preceded his remarks with:
"We don't get much positives about the female sex in this forum."
I don't see how his wife's abject deference is ...[text shortened]... ponent being equally valued) I think that's something to which we should all aspire.
"We don't get much positives about the female sex in this forum."
And like you, some might have the opinion that his wife is described as rather docile.
Objectification in here is a given. Now I just laugh or go on to the next thread. We do have some very clear voices in here that I hear and don't cringe at. There are times that I marvel at the simplest things posted in here being rearranged or picked apart. Having said that, I can see it both ways and I do not disagree with you. If you were in the room at that moment, would you not have seen that it was a tender moment? I guess that's what I saw in my mind's eye.
Anyway. I'd like someone to wash my clothes or make me a plate of food π.
I think his perception has something to do with his life at the moment, yes. I get the impression that simple acts of love move him deeply because of what he has gone through with his wife. They are expecting their first child, it's a magical time.
Mike? We are talking about you. π
Originally posted by epic0002π΅π΅π΅π΅ You obviously have been married a long time!!!!!
My wife cooks, cleans, does laundry, has dinner ready..etc...but I dont need to praise her for it.... THATS HER ROLE. she doesnt say she loves me when I mow the lawn or take out the trash.
Mike dont spoil her just tell her to shut her mouth and know her roleπ
Originally posted by mikelomYeah, I wish my partner would do everything for me too.
We don't get much positives about the female sex in this forum.
I would like to commend my wife! Up yours if you don't like it!
It is Sunday 18.48pm for me. My wife just walked into our lounge and, after pressing my suit, asked what I would like for dinner.
After losing a baby and now being pregnant again, she questioned nothing apart from; am I happy ...[text shortened]... ho can join me in thanking theirs also.! π To lovely ladies!!! Hip Hip Hoorah! π
Originally posted by StarrmanOh okay okay Thread 78394 I have re-read it and you're right I jumped to conclusion you don't actually say you did.
Then perhaps you should work on either your memory or your reading skills.
Sorry
Originally posted by mikelom.....b-b-but i don't have a wife?!? π
We don't get much positives about the female sex in this forum.
I would like to commend my wife! Up yours if you don't like it!
It is Sunday 18.48pm for me. My wife just walked into our lounge and, after pressing my suit, asked what I would like for dinner.
After losing a baby and now being pregnant again, she questioned nothing apart from; am I happy ...[text shortened]... ho can join me in thanking theirs also.! π To lovely ladies!!! Hip Hip Hoorah! π
Originally posted by pawnhandlerok I am not an avid forum poster, i.e. I miss more than the occassional thread, so forgive me for asking, can you please explain what you mean. From my prospective he is a genuine guy plays otb and is fairly transparent (unless I have missed something?) in that he is very genuine, he is very open about the chess club (ealing) who he plays for, so he is not one of these internet twerps that frequents the site (not saying they don't have rights etc. but I'm sure you know what I mean).
Well, this is the same guy who decided that posts and PMs of comfort and assistance were worthless because we didn't jump on a bandwagon and welcome him back loudly. Consider the source.
Originally posted by stevetoddi definately see why you stay out of the forumsπ
ok I am not an avid forum poster, i.e. I miss more than the occassional thread, so forgive me for asking, can you please explain what you mean. From my prospective he is a genuine guy plays otb and is fairly transparent (unless I have missed something?) in that he is very genuine, he is very open about the chess club (ealing) who he plays for, so he is not ...[text shortened]... frequents the site (not saying they don't have rights etc. but I'm sure you know what I mean).
Originally posted by stevetoddhttp://www.redhotpawn.com/board/showthread.php?threadid=75224&page=1
ok I am not an avid forum poster, i.e. I miss more than the occassional thread, so forgive me for asking, can you please explain what you mean. From my prospective he is a genuine guy plays otb and is fairly transparent (unless I have missed something?) in that he is very genuine, he is very open about the chess club (ealing) who he plays for, so he is not ...[text shortened]... frequents the site (not saying they don't have rights etc. but I'm sure you know what I mean).