Okay, some one has to explain it I guess. First, you just aren't reading the signals right. Just pay attention to her. Just value her opinion 50% of the time. Just ask her what she would like to do. Don't be an octopus and let her be the leader sometimes. Care, don't just pretend that you do. Then you get rewarded with a real relationship that will rock your world. Until then, you are just growing up and learning. It's ok. Girls need to learn the same stuff.
Originally posted by coquetteI value my wife's opinion most all the time, because she's not a life-sucking vampire like this woman is.
Okay, some one has to explain it I guess. First, you just aren't reading the signals right. Just pay attention to her. Just value her opinion 50% of the time. Just ask her what she would like to do. Don't be an octopus and let her be the leader sometimes. Care, don't just pretend that you do. Then you get rewarded with a real relationship that will rock you ...[text shortened]... til then, you are just growing up and learning. It's ok. Girls need to learn the same stuff.
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Originally posted by RSMA1234Maybe the problem is that you are seeing women, I mean there are bound to be tensions between the women you are seeing concomitantly.
So you start seeing a women, treat her well, take her to nice places, "do the do" as they say and then it all changes.....
If you don't phone more then once a day, you "have gone AWOL"...or if you disagree with her friend (because she is condesending towards you), your at fault, if you don't end a text with a "XX" then its "arsey"
Some how I just don't get it....
Any words of wisdom ladies ?
Originally posted by RSMA1234Here's a tip:
So you start seeing a women, treat her well, take her to nice places, "do the do" as they say and then it all changes.....
If you don't phone more then once a day, you "have gone AWOL"...or if you disagree with her friend (because she is condesending towards you), your at fault, if you don't end a text with a "XX" then its "arsey"
Some how I just don't get it....
Any words of wisdom ladies ?
Get to know a girl (woman) first before you start doing a bunch of crap for her and buying her a bunch of crap. If you like each other, the crap doesn't even matter and you will be better without it.
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This is something that I have realized in the past few years. I don't know why it took me so long....
Originally posted by mlpriorTotally agree. This must be one of those lessons you learn AFTER all the misery has been had???
Here's a tip:
Get to know a girl (woman) first before you start doing a bunch of crap for her and buying her a bunch of crap. If you like each other, the crap doesn't even matter and you will be better without it.
😀
This is something that I have realized in the past few years. I don't know why it took me so long....
Gotta love it!
Originally posted by RSMA1234How long have you been seeing her?
So you start seeing a women, treat her well, take her to nice places, "do the do" as they say and then it all changes.....
If you don't phone more then once a day, you "have gone AWOL"...or if you disagree with her friend (because she is condesending towards you), your at fault, if you don't end a text with a "XX" then its "arsey"
Some how I just don't get it....
Any words of wisdom ladies ?
Originally posted by PhlabibitLOL...very funny !!!
Agree! I can just imagine the phone conversations here.
"So, how are you?"
"great! What are you doing?"
"Checking in with you."
"oh, how sweet!"
"Ok, I've got some stuff I need to do. I'll call you later."
"Hold on..."
"What's up?"
"do you love me?"
"Yes, I love you."
"how much?"
"A whole lot."
"What are you off to do ...[text shortened]... ike that."
"what kind of stuff?"
"Um....."
Arg!
Not said the love thang as yet....maybe not a good idea as yet😀
The thing is if you do call her once a day or always agree with her and her friend you become a wuss, nice guy aka loser..
When your with her be all over her and really nice an considerate..and every now and then completely ignor her messages for a while saying your busy..you cant be always their for her as theirs no challange in that for her..
it's when she's sitting looking at her phone wondering why you havent txted - that's the point when she's feeling attracted..you got to keep her guessing..
whenever she's been bitchy thats the point when you DONT respond..