Originally posted by TorunnNeither of my kids is 45 or even near that and neither has stuck around, moving out since they started university low these 9 and 8 years ago.
As long as they don't move in. I would be very happy to see them (as I am/was with both), but they would not be allowed to move back in with me.
Originally posted by Great Big SteesMy daughters are 47 and 50 years old and, with some help from me financially and practically when they were younger, they have managed their lives on their own. They have learned from their mistakes just as I have.
Neither of my kids is 45 or even near that and neither has stuck around, moving out since they started university low these 9 and 8 years ago.
Originally posted by TorunnThat (learn from your mistakes) is a rule I have stuck to all my life and have instilled the same with my kids.
My daughters are 47 and 50 years old and, with some help from me financially and practically when they were younger, they have managed their lives on their own. They have learned from their mistakes just as I have.
Originally posted by TorunnTorunn,
My daughters are 47 and 50 years old and, with some help from me financially and practically when they were younger, they have managed their lives on their own. They have learned from their mistakes just as I have.
I don't have to explain to you as you are older than I am that life is learning experience, which never stops.
Funny, when I was 16 - 17 I knew it all, now I realize I am still learning new things. I guess that would be called growing up & maturing.
-VR
Originally posted by Very RustyThat is all very true - and we must let our children learn and mature. Often we follow the examples of our parents in many ways - I did, my children still do and my grandchildren too. I can see in my family that leading by example works - not in fast way but eventually it shows.
Torunn,
I don't have to explain to you as you are older than I am that life is learning experience, which never stops.
Funny, when I was 16 - 17 I knew it all, now I realize I am still learning new things. I guess that would be called growing up & maturing.
-VR
Originally posted by TorunnI think I simply must learn when to hold my tongue. This thread should have witty replies, not like mine, so back to the topic. Ice Cold/ChessPraxis expected witty posts. 🙂
That is all very true - and we must let our children learn and mature. Often we follow the examples of our parents in many ways - I did, my children still do and my grandchildren too. I can see in my family that leading by example works - not in fast way but eventually it shows.