Originally posted by kathleen1Having trouble find a man are we? So what, you thought you'd come on here and ask how everyone got themselves someone? You think if you can find out what other people do, then do that too, then you will find someone too? Tip number 1. Don't be something you're not. You joined a chess site not because you enjoy chess (rating 700?) but because you thought you could find a smart guy. Was it cosmo or vanity fair that told you to do things that men enjoy in order for men to find you interesting...?
Just wondering if we all search for similar qualities?? Is intelligence valuable?? Physical appearance?? Can attraction be based on personality alone?? Are strong men attracted to weak women and weak women attracted to strong men?? Does the way you were raised and the beliefs your parents imprinted on you have an effect on your relationship now?? If your father/mother left, do you live in fear of rejection??
Here's the best advice on guys. We like honesty, not comparison shoppers.
Originally posted by uzlessNo, I am not looking thank you, but if I were I am sure sarcasm is a quality I would not look for. I find the human mind interesting and how we all relate to each other.
Having trouble find a man are we? So what, you thought you'd come on here and ask how everyone got themselves someone? You think if you can find out what other people do, then do that too, then you will find someone too? Tip number 1. Don't be something you're not. You joined a chess site not because you enjoy chess (rating 700?) but because you thought ...[text shortened]... nteresting...?
Here's the best advice on guys. We like honesty, not comparison shoppers.
But thanks for the crap you just wrote.