Probably a balance between the two... honestly I'm not offended by much, and I enjoy a great laugh at the expense of myself (which is more hilarious) or others (less hilarious). But we are all here to play chess which I am trying very hard to learn (the library has taken quite a workout to get all the chess books I requested). I'm having great fun here, as should we all.
you know i had knew nothing of chess with the exception of how the pieces moved when I started in May. I have yet to read any books. I have found that taking 2-3 minutes to move greatly improves my game over moving every 30-60 seconds. Another thing I found is when someome has a queen in front of there king in the midgame you can often win the queen in a trade for you rook. will try to find example.
this player was 175 points above me so his mistake rather shocked me. Game 3706569
and another where I placed the opponent in check which led to a queen capture. Game 3754783