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Yet you are judgemental in the extreme. You for instance, would not deign to even give me an email address so I could show you some pictures of my grandkids, who now number over 2 dozen, only a few of them have my genes, its a long story but we have somehow ended up with some highly talented kids and grandkids.
I just asked you for your involvement with the arts and you just say I sing. But you refuse to look at the link I provided of my music, you saying you are not a music critic. I wasn't asking for a music critic, all I was asking was to show you the direction my music has led me. Perhaps give you a bit of appreciation that I am not the prejudiced white dude you think I am. If you saw the pictures of my grandkids you would have some understanding of my family history and where I really stand on prejudice.

I think you have deep rooted trust issues, like me asking for an email address where I could post you some of my more recent music tracks or pictures of our beautiful grandkinds, you it seems, perhaps fear I would be wanting to take over your computer and dump porn or some other scam.

I didn't come into the offer of friendship with any pre-existing conditions.

It seems your order of mind is to first fight, then maybe if the opponent is worthy, to show a softer side. You never show a soft side in all the posts I have seen you write here.

I was talking about friendship in the light of just say, being on a moonlit beach in awe at the beauty of the night sky or the rolling of the waves, a shared moment, nothing more.

That would be a bit hard on the internet, for sure🙂

I take offense that you put me in the category of racist as if only white people are racist.

I know for a fact there exists racism in every society. I lived for years in Thailand, in Israel, on Andros Island working at Autec and saw a lot of different varieties of prejudice.

One time in Thailand I was shocked at the display of racial prejudice of Thai's against the Vietnamese. I was there during the Vietnam war as a civilian working on microwave communications links. I lived with a Thai family in a house over 100 years old where successive generations would add a room and by the time I got there, the house had grown to a small villa, up in the air 6 feet because we were one block away from the Mekong river which has a habit of forcing its way up the shores in floods.
Anyway, one day I am walking around NakomPhenam, the town in which I lived, and nearby was a refugee camp of about 20,000 Vietnamese who fled the conflict in Vietnam.

So the peace was shattered by some stupid teenager putting a picture of Mao on the tail of a cat along with tin cans and some anti-Vietnamese words in Thai and Vietnamese so they would not mistake the message.

A small riot ensued and it gave me a clearer understanding of racial bias.

You know nothing of my life and our decades long struggle with our adopted sons who have mental disabilities not from genetics but from an extremely abusive mother who broke 14 bones in their little bodies before they were 6 months old.

The medicals told us they would be separated and institutionalized and we said nay, both me and my wife, just automatically said no way.

And we have lived with the issues of familial prejudice ever since. Our other children denounced the new little ones as us somehow leaving them in the dust and only concentrating on the twins.

That is our burden to bear. It has not been an easy 25 years of their lives for the twins, for our other children or us, we have paid a heavy cost for all of that, but we would do it again, we see the results of a long term engagement with our twins and the fights we have had to endure with authorities not willing to help as they should with kids as mentally challenged as they are. One psychologist said if they had not been so severely abused as infants they would have been gifted but the fact the birth mother was a prostitute addicted to heroin, cocaine, and anything else she could get her hands on, it left the twins with permanent brain damage yet other parts of the same brain undamaged and the results of tests showed that extreme dichotomy of abilities.

I don't just speak out against prejudice, I think we, my wife and I, have walked the walk and not just talked the talk which is all I hear at RHP.

My wife is in fact part Amerind, my father is part Amerind, her first husband was full blood Hawaiian and so three of our children are half Hawaiian and a mix of white and Amerind and we adopted a half Hawaiian half Korean kid also.

My family consists of a daughter in law from Sweden, a daughter in law from the Yucatan, a Mayan, my daughter married a Tamil and they have two beautiful kids, half white and half Indian (Tamil Nadu to be exact).

I rejoice in our diverse heritage and to be called some kind of racist more interested in supporting those cretins you shout about is offensive to me.

I can only look at their present statements, I can't go back 4 years worth of posts to find the exact words that you found offensive, I don't know if you can understand the time constraints of my life and how little time I have for much of anything except work, commute, family obligations, you have no idea how many birthday parties we are obliged to attend🙂 But it is delightful to see the young ones blossom in ways we never expected. Our little part Mayan granddaughter Belin we find out has a beautiful singing voice, I have really advanced recorder, a portable unit, Tascam, and recorded her singing a Bruno Mars song, not a great song by any means but we were awed how good an untrained 13 year old could sound. Then to my dismay, I accidentally recorded over her voice so now I have to do it again. Our part Swedish/Hawaiian grandaughter is showing really advance artistic talent at the age of 14. My genetic grandson is highly gifted, amazingly so, in high gifted programs in school and he is so forceful in his pursuits he bugged his school administration to force a yet higher gifted program just for him! He is interested in most everything including music and we got him a nice keyboard and he is basically teaching himself since there is no music program at the horrible school he is forced to attend.

In short I have a beautiful family and if you chose not to believe that without evidence so be it. You can PM me with any kind of email that can get pictures to you and you can be assured I am not in it to pull some kind of scam. That is not who I am.

Or not, I have a rich life.

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It's alright, nothing gained nothing lost. Just remember, you are not the only one feeling offense. Sincerely hope you have a good life.

Originally posted by sonhouse
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I was talking about friendship in the light of just say, being on a moonlit beach in awe at the beauty of the night sky or the rolling of the waves, a shared moment, nothing more.
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Or not, I have a rich life.[/b]

Creepy...
Is your multiculti family okay with your begging a woman online for "friendship", to meet at a virtual beach, staring at a virtual night sky together?
Even creepier if YES.