How the "Christian" Spell was broken

Originally posted by FMF
Your question was not out of line. I'm simply not interested, that's all.

Whether you happen to believe there has been some misrepresentation of Christianity that's gone on (and that's the issue), or whether you believe I was "shipwrecked" (and therefore I am floundering), or whether you want to demonstrate how your strain of Christian thinking is better, tr ...[text shortened]... ll be a Christian, albeit only just, and let all the ideologues of various stripes court me. 😛

In the past, when I’ve responded to such questions, they invariably turned out to be a kind of “bait and switch”—that is, the real intent had nothing to do with honest curiosity, but was set up to show (to other readers, if not myself) how wrong (or hypocritical and dishonest) I must be. And I, trustingly, wandered in.

I won’t do that again.

I have years of history posting on here. I have posted what I believed—and I have shared changes in those beliefs. If someone wants to try to bait me now with various claims about why I must be “afraid” (or whatever) to respond, yet again, to this kind of inquiry—enjoy your smug self-righteousness.

Originally posted by vistesd
In the past, when I’ve responded to such questions, they invariably turned out to be a kind of “bait and switch”—that is, the real intent had nothing to do with honest curiosity, but was set up to show (to other readers, if not myself) how wrong (or hypocritical and dishonest) I must be. And I, trustingly, wandered in.

I won’t do that again.

I have ye ...[text shortened]... (or whatever) to respond, yet again, to this kind of inquiry—enjoy your smug self-righteousness.

Originally posted by FMF
I think you are being presumptuous - and overestimating - the significance to me of what you can and cannot see in this matter.

Originally posted by FMF

I gradually came to realize that the Bible did not provide me with credible evidence to support the claims that Christians make about God and about the divinity of Jesus

~ and the significance of his life ~ which were a set of notions and hopes that I had internalized and held to be true for many years.

I say to all those who are still Christians and those who might become Christians (because of the efforts of people like sonship):

if your beliefs give you comfort and purpose in your lives, and if they help you to come to terms with the inevitability of death, then good for you.

I have no regrets. I haven't felt that I've been in any kind of "recovery". And I don't urge anyone to follow suit. I have no theories about supernatural beings or any such concepts as "life after death" to offer you with which you might want to replace your own.

Originally posted by sonship
I think you over estimate thirty years of your life as to how it was somehow "Christian".
It was just thirty years maybe, nothing more.

Were you trying to really impress us that you were a thirty year veteran of the faith of the Gospel ? An old timer at this Gospel thing ?

You could have just given people your age. That would have sufficed. The overestimating was yours I think, - false significance of three decades.

Originally posted by sonship
Do you think people who become lovers of Jesus only do so because of the issue of their looming death ?

Originally posted by sonship
Sounds tolerant.

Originally posted by vistesd
In the past, when I’ve responded to such questions, they invariably turned out to be a kind of “bait and switch”—that is, the real intent had nothing to do with honest curiosity, but was set up to show (to other readers, if not myself) how wrong (or hypocritical and dishonest) I must be. And I, trustingly, wandered in. I won’t do that again.

Originally posted by sonship
I think you over estimate thirty years of your life as to how it was somehow "Christian".
It was just thirty years maybe, nothing more.

Were you trying to really impress us that you were a thirty year veteran of the faith of the Gospel ? An old timer at this Gospel thing ?

You could have just given people your age. That would have sufficed. The overestimating was yours I think, - false significance of three decades.

Originally posted by robbie carrobie
I just don't buy the testimony, how can you be thirty years a Christian and know practically nothing about the book upon which your faith rests? its incredulous.

Originally posted by FMF
As can be seen from sonship's demeanour in recent days, and by things like him starting this thread, and with comments he's made elsewhere, he sees himself as being in some kind of Christian willy-waving contest.

I've even said to him, repeatedly, that I simply don't care if he doesn't believe what I have said about my past beliefs. And yet he keeps asking a ...[text shortened]... he point of seeking to indulge himself in a Christian willy-waving contest with a non-Christian!

Originally posted by sonship
Willy waving? I don't know what that is suppose to mean.

You forgot to mention to poster visted that you have never " indulged " in any kind of contest with Christians on this Forum.

I 'm surprised that you didn't mention that you have given no such impression that YOU are in a contest with Christians here , including me, at any time.

if you're going to play Mr. Innocent you might as well go all out.

Originally posted by sonship
I 'm surprised that you didn't mention that you have given no such impression that YOU are in a contest with Christians here , including me, at any time.

Originally posted by FMF
I am not in a contest with Christians here sonship. I will leave that sort of thing to you and other Christians. I am not a Christian. You are wasting your time trying to compare your current Christian beliefs to beliefs that I happen to have held in the past.

I am not in a contest with Christians here sonship.

I will leave that sort of thing to you and other Christians.

I am not a Christian.

You are wasting your time trying to compare your current Christian beliefs to beliefs that I happen to have held in the past.