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Originally posted by @fmf
Jokes that are partly about rape are OK then?

Do you have family members who might see this thread?
So is it a moral absolute that you are not allowed to find a joke funny? Wow you have such double standards.

No I don't. Do you?

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
So is it a moral absolute that you are not allowed to find a joke funny? Wow you have such double standards.
To me, jokes about rape aren't funny, one reason being, I have known and worked with rape victims. How is this a "double standard" on my part?

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Originally posted by @fmf
To me, jokes about rape aren't funny, one reason being, I have known and worked with rape victims. How is this a "double standard" on my part?
Sure, I already explained to you what I found amusing and it had nothing to do with rape victims. Do you think your standard about what people are allowed to find funny only applies to you or does it apply to everyone?

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
Sure, I already explained to you what I found amusing and it had nothing to do with rape victims.
How can you claim the joke had nothing to do with rape victims? Do you not perceive women who are subjected to marital rape - in the case of this joke, divegeester's wife - as being rape victims?

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
Do you think your standard about what people are allowed to find funny only applies to you or does it apply to everyone?
Who is it you think has said you "are not allowed" to find rape jokes funny?

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Originally posted by @fmf
How can you claim the joke had nothing to do with rape victims? Do you not perceive women who are subjected to marital rape - in the case of this joke, divegeester's wife - as being rape victims?
I was not laughing at Divegeester's wife, didn't even know he was married. I already explained to you what I found amusing.

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Originally posted by @fmf
Who is it you think has said you "are not allowed" to find rape jokes funny?
So if I am, what are you on about?

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
I was not laughing at Divegeester's wife, didn't even know he was married.
So if he were not married, how would he rape his wife? The joke you thought funny was about marital rape, you realize that, right?

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
So if I am, what are you on about?
This is a non-sequitur. You asked me if I thought my standard about what people are allowed to find funny only applies to me or if it applies to everyone. The question presupposes that I do actually believe that you are not allowed to find a joke about a woman being raped by another poster funny. Who has said you are "not allowed" to find rape funny? I haven't said that. It's clear what I am on about here; the same can't be said about you.

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Originally posted by @fmf
So if he were not married, how would he rape his wife? The joke you thought funny was about marital rape, you realize that, right?
Whodey simply asked a question. He said nothing specifically about marital rape. Assumptions had to be made by the reader. What assumption did you make?

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Originally posted by @fmf
This is a non-sequitur. You asked me if I thought my standard about what people are allowed to find funny only applies to me or if it applies to everyone. The question presupposes that I do actually believe that you are not allowed to find a joke about a woman being raped by another poster funny. Who has said you are "not allowed" to find rape funny? I haven't said that. It's clear what I am on about here; the same can't be said about you.
So why exactly are you asking me these questions if I am allowed to smile at a joke? 🙄

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
So you think marital rape is morally acceptable?
I think you need to identify if you think that biblically there is such a thing.

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
[b]I seem to remember you supporting Robbie carrobie who initially vehemently claimed that within the framework of biblical reference it was impossible for a man to rape his wife as she had "given consent" to sex through the marriage vows and sacrament.

You are confusing me with someone else.

I believe any kind of rape is always wrong. I've told you this like a millions times?[/b]
In biblical terms is there such a thing as martial rape?

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
Whodey simply asked a question. He said nothing specifically about marital rape.
You are now claiming whodey's 'joke' was not about marital rape?

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Originally posted by @dj2becker
The comment was tongue in cheek, if you had a sense of humor maybe you would have gotten that. 😛
Considering that you told us how your sister was raped I find it rather strange to find you kicking off threads like this, laughing at jokes about rape and using tongue in cheek emojis.

As I said you are an odd person. A bit creepy also I have to say.

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