Spirituality
30 Aug 22
@kellyjay saidI am pretty confident about my moral compass. I believe it has served me well and has been of benefit to my family and others. If you feel your moral compass is "broken" then so be it. I wish you well. I hope you find a way to sort it out.
To suggest our compasses are broken suggests even my own is as well.
31 Aug 22
@fmf saidWhy, because it lines up with your personal preferences and opinions? Does it change as your assumptions change to once again line up with your preferences and opinions? Wouldn’t a compass if working always point in the same direction no matter what direction you are going?
I am pretty confident about my moral compass. I believe it has served me well and has been of benefit to my family and others. If you feel your moral compass is "broken" then so be it. I wish you well. I hope you find a way to sort it out.
@kellyjay saidIt has not changed much since I was in my teens. I have matured considerably since then and I've experienced all manner of things in various countries. No doubt some of the decisions my moral compass has helped me to make are different now from those that I made when I was 16 years old. But, at its very core, I don't think it has changed dramatically.
Does it change as your assumptions change to once again line up with your preferences and opinions?
31 Aug 22
@fmf saidSo again because it suits you and as near as you can tell it remains the same. If it’s changing as you do why would it ever appear to be doing anything else? You noticing small changes should tell you something is happening. When people are lost they tend to go in circles with out noticing, only a fix point can tell us we are moving in the same direction.
It has not changed much since I was in my teens. I have matured considerably since then and I've experienced all manner of things in various countries. No doubt some of the decisions my moral compass has helped me to make are different now from those that I made when I was 16 years old. But, at its very core, I don't think it has changed dramatically.
@kellyjay saidI am not "lost". Are you?
When people are lost they tend to go in circles with out noticing, only a fix point can tell us we are moving in the same direction.
I haven't been "going in circles". If you have, and if you want to confide, feel free to do so. But don't do it for my benefit.
I have already explained that my moral compass has scarcely changed - at its very core - since I was a teenager. What's not "fixed" about that?
@kellyjay saidI can't itemize them for you. If you have lived a life in which you have never been able to say that "something is happening" to you and around you, then that is a pity.
You noticing small changes should tell you something is happening.
My moral compass has guided me through higher education, unemployment and employment, through hard times and good.
It guided me through a sudden new chapter in my life when I gave up pretty much everything and moved away from my country of birth, climbing inside new and different cultures, living in other countries, meeting countless people with diverse beliefs, getting married, raising kids and so on.
My moral compass has been pretty much constant throughout. The decisions I have made, with its help, with regard to my interactions have adjusted to cultural contexts along the way, naturally.
31 Aug 22
@kellyjay saidWait a minute. I have just realized you might have no idea what I am talking about OR you might be pretending not to understand. Either way, the above question makes you sound a bit clueless and/or scrabbling around for something to say. So, let me ask:
If it’s changing as you do why would it ever appear to be doing anything else?
What do you envisage I mean when I talk about "changing"?
31 Aug 22
@fmf saidHow would you know?
I am not "lost". Are you?
I haven't been "going in circles". If you have, and if you want to confide, feel free to do so. But don't do it for my benefit.
I have already explained that my moral compass has scarcely changed - at its very core - since I was a teenager. What's not "fixed" about that?
31 Aug 22
@fmf saidYou have been a Theist, and how many other definitions have you applied to yourself and are you sure you got it right now?
I am not "lost". Are you?
I haven't been "going in circles". If you have, and if you want to confide, feel free to do so. But don't do it for my benefit.
I have already explained that my moral compass has scarcely changed - at its very core - since I was a teenager. What's not "fixed" about that?