@ghost-of-a-duke saidLike I said, I think Suzianne posts very little "ball" these days. She is the very epitome of playing the man rather than the ball. As a result, she posts loads of stuff that is deluded and patanoid. When that happens, it is sometimes remarked upon.
Play the ball, not the person. You can disagree or tell people they are incorrect without being personal and insulting.
@fmf saidAgain, people will react in kind. That is on you to resolve.
So what did she say when you told her to play the ball and not the man?
Why are you always startled when you press people's buttons and they decide to press back? On what planet does that make you the victim?
@ghost-of-a-duke saidYou reckon I've had posts removed for supposedly weaponizing mental health?
Who am I to read the minds of the mods. You have certainly had posts removed.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidWhat did she say when you suggested she play the ball more, and the man less?
Again, people will react in kind. That is on you to resolve.
@fmf saidYou had posts removed in the same discussions. Who am I to say in which way they breached the terms and conditions of the site?
You reckon I've had posts removed for supposedly weaponizing mental health?
Edit: You were probably playing the person and not the ball.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidI haven't claimed to be a victim. Where did you get that from? Are you debasing yourself in this conversation because she has been telling you she thinks she is a victim?
Why are you always startled when you press people's buttons and they decide to press back? On what planet does that make you the victim?
@fmf saidI think you should stop playing the victim card and realise that people will not always react well when you press their buttons.
I haven't claimed to be a victim. Where did you get that from? Are you debasing yourself in this conversation because she has been telling you she thinks shecis a victim?
@ghost-of-a-duke saidNo, I don't think I did. Can you point to the pages? If you'd like, I can point to where you had maybe half a dozen posts removed for weaponizing mental health. One can tell by replies you were getting.
You had posts removed in the same discussions.
@fmf saidAgain, people will react in kind. That is on you to resolve.
What did she say when you suggested she play the ball more, and the man less?
@ghost-of-a-duke saidThis is not answering the question. What did Suzianne say when you suggested she play the ball more, and not the man?
Again, people will react in kind. That is on you to resolve.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidWhat "victim card"?
I think you should stop playing the victim card and realise that people will not always react well when you press their buttons.
@fmf saidYou are mistaken. Go look yourself.
No, I don't think I did. Can you point to the pages? If you'd like, I can point to where you had maybe half a dozen posts removed for weaponizing mental health. One can tell by replies you were getting.
And again, having a friend alert posts is pretty meaningless. God knows you and Dive jump all over Rusty when you think he has done that and had your posts removed.
As I don't alert posts, mods wouldn't be aware of the things you wrote unless somebody else was minded to alert them. (But then they would have to have read them, and I doubt many people followed those extensive exchanges).
@ghost-of-a-duke saidyou'd like, I can point to where you had maybe half a dozen posts removed for weaponizing mental health. One can tell by replies you were getting.
You are mistaken. Go look yourself.