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If the women are not acting like ladies the men don’t have to act like gentlemen.

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Originally posted by Tyrannosauruschex
This can be quite a controversial issue but I feel that in the modern day, women are not as weak and reclusive as they once were and sometimes flaunt the archaic unspoken rule of not hitting women.

For example, in a case I heard about, a gang of kids attacked some guy in the street, he fended off the male members but was too chivalrous to hit th ...[text shortened]... o receive no retalliation because men 'cant' hit women then the old rules should be rethought.
Maybe it was just the way I was raised, hitting a woman is never acceptable. If a woman were to hit me, with say her fists, then restraining her might be an option, striking her ..absolutely not.

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Originally posted by AThousandYoung
I think you're being overly dramatic. This will be quickly forgotten, and even if not, it can easily be passed off as a joke.
well for starters, if this was a joke it doesn't excuse him in the least.

and i am not being that dramatic(well maybe a little). pawn queen searched what other threads he was making and found this gem. if she hadn't did that we would all have debated hitting women and be don in 10 posts. now is it unreasonable to think some other people would search for his threads every time he makes one?

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Originally posted by SMSBear716
Maybe it was just the way I was raised, hitting a woman is never acceptable. If a woman were to hit me, with say her fists, then restraining her might be an option, striking her ..absolutely not.
you are thinking of course about the delicate shtick figure models. in that case restraining is an option. but with the butch types and that coupled with the man being a shtick figure himself(like me) a lucky punch in the jaw and then run like hell is the only option.(or just run)

or maybe the woman has a knife or a tazer. then restraining her is complicated. what separates gentlemen from animals is where you stop with the punches. if you throw a woman to the ground and you keep punching her then you are an animal(this applies to a male combatant as well)

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Gender has nothing to do with the use of force. I have never hit anyone, i hope never to have to, but if such a need arose then gender would not be a consideration in defending myself.

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Originally posted by Tyrannosauruschex
Some good points there, others not so good. Perhaps we should look at your credentials, I dont know much about you but your chess record is hardly one that screams out that you are a high quality thinker.

Anyway, less of the debate of my rodeo topic here, lets try and stick to this matter.
It makes me laugh when forum users try to gauge the validity of someone's post from their RHP rating.

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Originally posted by knightwest
It makes me laugh when forum users try to gauge the validity of someone's post from their RHP rating.
Ah the rationalization of the truly mediocre! (says he languishing below 1200).

So when she says size doesn't matter you believe her as well?

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Originally posted by SMSBear716
Maybe it was just the way I was raised, hitting a woman is never acceptable. If a woman were to hit me, with say her fists, then restraining her might be an option, striking her ..absolutely not.
what if there were 5 of them, and they weren't dainty types either? What if she had a knife?

I don't agree with hitting anyone unless I have to. It's more likely I'd have to hit a guy in order to control him (rather than bring him under control without hitting him), but if I needed to to defend myself forcefully from an aggressor then frankly - they started it, regardless of gender.

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Originally posted by Zahlanzi
well for starters, if this was a joke it doesn't excuse him in the least.

and i am not being that dramatic(well maybe a little). pawn queen searched what other threads he was making and found this gem. if she hadn't did that we would all have debated hitting women and be don in 10 posts. now is it unreasonable to think some other people would search for his threads every time he makes one?
Can I make it clear that I did NOT 'search' through any of his postings. I had been in the General forum anyway before I came to this one.

I wouldn't think to look through the threads and postings of anyone before I make my posts, this was a coincidence. 🙂

The subject I raised is now closed, thankyou.

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Originally posted by Pawn Qween
Can I make it clear that I did NOT 'search' through any of his postings. I had been in the General forum anyway before I came to this one.

I wouldn't think to look through the threads and postings of anyone before I make my posts, this was a coincidence. 🙂

The subject I raised is now closed, thankyou.
Yes, we have come to a dignified conclusion over that issue. It would be nice if all debates could be solved in such a way.

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Originally posted by Pawn Qween
Can I make it clear that I did NOT 'search' through any of his postings. I had been in the General forum anyway before I came to this one.

I wouldn't think to look through the threads and postings of anyone before I make my posts, this was a coincidence. 🙂

The subject I raised is now closed, thankyou.
well since you did raised the rodeo thread issue, it does has a lot to do with the issue at hand. gives you a better picture of what he thinks of women in general and gives you pointers on how to argue your point of view. of course searching through other peoples previous posts is a bit much and i am too lazy to do that. but at some times it can be interesting research(if you have the time)

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Originally posted by Tyrannosauruschex
Yes, we have come to a dignified conclusion over that issue. It would be nice if all debates could be solved in such a way.
do you even regret that colossal blunder or are you just happy pawnqueen decided to slip it under the rug?

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Originally posted by Zahlanzi
do you even regret that colossal blunder or are you just happy pawnqueen decided to slip it under the rug?
I dont say anything without thinking of the implications beforehand, so no I dont regret that a comedy post has been taken to be an actual representation of what I think.

While we are on the subject of colossal blunders, take a look at move 27 Game 3426253

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Originally posted by SMSBear716
Maybe it was just the way I was raised, hitting a woman is never acceptable. If a woman were to hit me, with say her fists, then restraining her might be an option, striking her ..absolutely not.
And if she was a 6 foot 5 kickboxer?

Or how about Muhammed Ali's daughter, the boxer?

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Originally posted by Zahlanzi
well for starters, if this was a joke it doesn't excuse him in the least.

and i am not being that dramatic(well maybe a little). pawn queen searched what other threads he was making and found this gem. if she hadn't did that we would all have debated hitting women and be don in 10 posts. now is it unreasonable to think some other people would search for his threads every time he makes one?
If he develops a pattern of such nastiness, that's one thing. A single post doesn't mean anything.

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