18 Sep 09
Originally posted by BlackampI'll keep that in mind. Thanks.
seriously, get a life. you spend all your time here, it seems, and you only have 2 games going, so it's not to play chess. there's a world out there, you know. i really do feel sorry for you - if your best option is to spend all your time in a place where you're almost universally despised, you must be really hard up.
really, it's pathetic.
Originally posted by Great Big SteesLet me try to answer your honest question, GBS. Many more cheeks than I've even yet discovered. Here's why a compassionate frame of reference and the grace mechanics of instant forgiveness make ultimate sense: #1. You consider the source. #2. Look past the post. #3. See the person behind it. #4. Recognize the telltale signs of emotional immaturity. #5. Realize that otherwise intelligent young adults are still attempting to resolve crucial issues from youth and childhood. #6. Anticipate the possibility that these unresolved issues may include parental presence and/or gender image deprivations. #7. Apply the principle that the unhappy and weak always react and attack the strong. #8. Understand that this compensatory behavior is in part motivated by hatred of self esteem and rejection of authority; and that borrowing strength by reason of association is its practical objective. #9. Know for certain that whenever weak people are threatened they eventually crumble inside, think and act irrationally. #10. You size up the stage, scene, actors, court jesters with hard objectivity and a relaxed perspective. You instinctively come to the same conclusion every time: How can I not absorb this situational dysfunction; realize muted cries for help represent opportunity to forgive and forget without losing stride. Give thanks. Smile anyway and move on. -gb
How many cheeks do you have GB?
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18 Sep 09
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Originally posted by Grampy Bobbyif this is your idea of cyber-sex, it's not working for me.
Let me try to answer your honest question, GBS. Many more cheeks than I've even yet discovered. Here's why a compassionate frame of reference and the grace mechanics of instant forgiveness make ultimate sense: #1. You consider the source. #2. Look past the post. #3. See the person behind it. #4. Recognize the telltale signs of emotional immaturity. #5. ...[text shortened]... tunity to forgive and forget without losing stride. Give thanks. Smile anyway and move on. -gb
say something about being "socially assertive" or "making decisions from a position of strength" - that usually does the trick.
18 Sep 09
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Originally posted by Grampy Bobbyquite insightfully put (if insightfully is a word, if not, it should be), displaying compassion and being ready to forgive are a sign of strength, not condescension, but of knowing that one is prone to make mistakes oneself and seeking to understand the person, even the reason. For this Gramps post gets a merit and a recommendation, for understanding is the prime entity to be grasped for!
Let me try to answer your honest question, GBS. Many more cheeks than I've even yet discovered. Here's why a compassionate frame of reference and the grace mechanics of instant forgiveness make ultimate sense: #1. You consider the source. #2. Look past the post. #3. See the person behind it. #4. Recognize the telltale signs of emotional immaturity. #5. ...[text shortened]... tunity to forgive and forget without losing stride. Give thanks. Smile anyway and move on. -gb
18 Sep 09
Originally posted by Grampy BobbyWhat a load.
Let me try to answer your honest question, GBS. Many more cheeks than I've even yet discovered. Here's why a compassionate frame of reference and the grace mechanics of instant forgiveness make ultimate sense: #1. You consider the source. #2. Look past the post. #3. See the person behind it. #4. Recognize the telltale signs of emotional immaturity. #5. ...[text shortened]... tunity to forgive and forget without losing stride. Give thanks. Smile anyway and move on. -gb
18 Sep 09
Originally posted by Grampy BobbyNo argument here!
Let me try to answer your honest question, GBS. Many more cheeks than I've even yet discovered. Here's why a compassionate frame of reference and the grace mechanics of instant forgiveness make ultimate sense: #1. You consider the source. #2. Look past the post. #3. See the person behind it. #4. Recognize the telltale signs of emotional immaturity. #5. ...[text shortened]... tunity to forgive and forget without losing stride. Give thanks. Smile anyway and move on. -gb
Rec'd!
18 Sep 09
Originally posted by Grampy BobbyThis is well worth a rec. I waded through a lot of stupid remarks....to put it mildly...before finding someone who has something worthwhile to say, and shows wisdom and patience despite all the mud-slinging retorts.
Let me try to answer your honest question, GBS. Many more cheeks than I've even yet discovered. Here's why a compassionate frame of reference and the grace mechanics of instant forgiveness make ultimate sense: #1. You consider the source. #2. Look past the post. #3. See the person behind it. #4. Recognize the telltale signs of emotional immaturity. #5. ...[text shortened]... tunity to forgive and forget without losing stride. Give thanks. Smile anyway and move on. -gb
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Originally posted by ale1552Actually, it's a bunch of ignorant babbling. None of it is true, just uninformed, incoherent conjectures of an old superfluous geezer.
This is well worth a rec. I waded through a lot of stupid remarks....to put it mildly...before finding someone who has something worthwhile to say, and shows wisdom and patience despite all the mud-slinging retorts.
19 Sep 09
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Originally posted by Great Big SteesInstead of playing chess, you can go to any number of free webcasts some Universities are offering and learn a new skill. Try to make yourself a little more multi-dimensional.
How many cheeks do you have GB?
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