26 May 05
Originally posted by xxxenophobeI'm lost for a way to put into words just how stupid this attitude is.
Hey sounds like me.. kinda.. im a dude.. i've ben sexually active since 14... dont know wether to be prouda that or not.. but i've ben with hmm... whell.. more people that i'd like to talk about..lol.. but in more than half of these cases have not worn protection.. yes i have a death wish... but to date.. whell last time i was tested was like last yea ...[text shortened]... as I.
EDIT: oh and to date no confermed kids ether.. and only one ex that had an abortion...
26 May 05
Originally posted by TDR1"God invented safe sex. he called it marraige" - anon
my friend is a freshman in highschool like me (15 years old). Today i just found out that over the weeked, she had sex with a junior. I've tried to explain it, but how do u talk to her about what could happen? She doesnt think she'll get pregnant or contract any diseases, as long as her partner uses a condom. On top of this, she has given oral sex 3 or 4 time ...[text shortened]... be helped?? How can i help her see what she's doing is wrong???
thanks for any help
-todd
although if someone knows who said that could they tell me? i like that quote. 100% safe sex...
syphilis is kicking about my hall at the moment in quite a big way. apparently there's a break out in at least two halls of residence each year. it's all rather silly...
26 May 05
Originally posted by XanthosNZone of the worst stupid... isnt that a double negative?.. hmm.. so.. thanks for the compliment i hope i shnog yer mother next.. mmm... would ya make that pouty face on yer avatar when ya found out???
I've encountered some very stupid people in my time. You are one of the worst.
26 May 05
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Originally posted by TDR1if you know this much about her sex life surely it won't be a problem talking to her about your concerns. if they are genuine concerns (which they are) they she will almost certainly listen, and if she is your friend she'll listen and appreciate your thought and concern for her. explain what you're worried about and why, don't patronise her by saying stuff like "stay safe", she knows she should.
my friend is a freshman in highschool like me (15 years old). Today i just found out that over the weeked, she had sex with a junior. I've tried to explain it, but how do u talk to her about what could happen? She doesnt think she'll get pre ...[text shortened]... r see what she's doing is wrong???
thanks for any help
-todd
you shouldn't be angry at her at all. people become sexually active at all different ages, and if she feels that the time is right for her then you shouldn't be angry. you have to let her make her own decisions, sure you can be angry with her but it's not going to change the fact that she has become sexually active and wants to have sex; clearly.
fred
edit: 2 freds at the end...im not quite sure how that happened 😕
26 May 05
Originally posted by shavixmirI can answer the first two from my own experience, and reading the post. The last two are more personal.
Is a junior older or younger than a freshman?
The girl does use condoms?
Does she fancy the people she has sex with?
Are you in love with her?
If you can answer these questions, I'll be able to advise you better.
Yes, it goes, freshmen, sophmore, junior, senior.
Yes, condoms are used.