If you had to choose...

Originally posted by Blackamp
ha! so you do mind!😛 saying you didn't mind was just a cunning trap!

Like I said, depends on the guy. There's a good way to ogle, and a not so good way. A lot of it depends on what happens after the initial ogle. Does the ogled notice, and how does she handle it...is there extended flirtation after that? And how does the ogler handle that?

All in a matter of seconds, with each detail noted by the ogler's sidekick.

Originally posted by SJ247
I'd think he were a fruitcake.

it was the 'dearest' that did it wasn't it?

Originally posted by SJ247
I'd think he were a fruitcake.

exactly. a real man would just say 'i'm gonna look at other women as we walk, so don't ask me to look at handbags in shop windows or any of your other girlie stuff'.😉

Originally posted by SJ247
Like I said, depends on the guy. There's a good way to ogle, and a not so good way. A lot of it depends on what happens after the initial ogle. Does the ogled notice, and how does she handle it...is there extended flirtation after that? And how does the ogler handle that?

All in a matter of seconds, with each detail noted by the ogler's sidekick.

remind me not to ever date you 😛

Originally posted by Blackamp
exactly. a real man would just say 'i'm gonna look at other women as we walk, so don't ask me to look at handbags in shop windows or any of your other girlie stuff'.😉

A "real" man, eh?

A real man knows that women don't appreciate being told in advance that they will be disrespected as he see fit. A real man doesn't assume that women go window shopping for handbags. 😛

Originally posted by trev33
remind me not to ever date you 😛

I believe we've established you're safe.

Originally posted by SJ247
I believe we've established you're safe.

oh yeah...i do have a very short memory.

suzi still around?

Originally posted by SJ247
A "real" man, eh?

A real man knows that women don't appreciate being told in advance that they will be disrespected as he see fit. A real man doesn't assume that women go window shopping for handbags. 😛

so, how would a real 'real man' handle the situation, in your opinion? assuming he wanted to look at other women.

Originally posted by trev33
oh yeah...i do have a very short memory.

suzi still around?

Wouldn't know.

Originally posted by trev33
oh yeah...i do have a very short memory.

i'm proud that i found the self-discipline not to 'fix' that😛

Originally posted by Blackamp
so, how would a real 'real man' handle the situation, in your opinion? assuming he wanted to look at other women.

I think a safe rule is to apply a three second time limit, and keep the viewing area from the neck down. Winking and smiling is too disrespectful to the purse-hound.

I'm laughing, but only sort of.

Originally posted by Blackamp
i'm proud that i found the self-discipline not to 'fix' that😛

His post was lacking in voluptuousness, yeah.

Originally posted by Blackamp
i'm proud that i found the self-discipline not to 'fix' that😛

oh, **** measuring contest......how preschool.

Originally posted by SJ247
I think a safe rule is to apply a three second time limit, and keep the viewing area from the neck down. Winking and smiling is too disrespectful to the purse-hound.

I'm laughing, but only sort of.

fair enough. what would be the guidelines for the girl on the dance floor?

Originally posted by trev33
oh, **** measuring contest......how preschool.

exactly. that's why i refrained.😛