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29 Nov 07
30 Nov 07
Originally posted by wormwoodcomplete A hole u r! Life threatening? you don't know the meaning of the word. She was dying anyway. You obviously know nothing about the disease nor the psychology of it. So shut your little trap! Expert! 😏
she had a life-threatening liver disease, got medicine that's dangerous to even a healthy liver (for voluntary choosing to drink), and died of a liver failure. makes sense.
I think you just made that up.
30 Nov 07
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Originally posted by mikelomyou claim she died of a liver failure. now you try to claim that the liver disease wasn't life-threatening?
complete A hole u r! Life threatening? you don't know the meaning of the word. She was dying anyway. You obviously know nothing about the disease nor the psychology of it. So shut your little trap! Expert! 😏
30 Nov 07
Originally posted by PocketKingsYou've done a great deal in 3 days. Don't take on too much or you'll get stressed. But a gym is super. You'll be doing so much you won't have time to think of having a drink..... and you'll meet good friends!
I did, one step ahead of you there 😉
Take care that you don't take on too much.. pace it easy! 😉
30 Nov 07
Originally posted by mikelomThank you, its been alot to admit and do. But if anyone hasn't figured it out yet, what I lost is a great woman, who tried to tell me I drank to much and i wouldn't listen. She's been gone a month, despite my attempts to call her. I sent her a long letter today, telling her what I've done these past few days and a whole lot of other stuff. I need her to be able to do this guys, I'll be to sad with out her. I really screwed myself up 😞
You've done a great deal in 3 days. Don't take on too much or you'll get stressed. But a gym is super. You'll be doing so much you won't have time to think of having a drink..... and you'll meet good friends!
Take care that you don't take on too much.. pace it easy! 😉
30 Nov 07
Originally posted by PocketKingsMate! don't tell her what you've done - prove it. I guarantee she is waiting to see change. Don't chase her - you'll scare her (again!).
Thank you, its been alot to admit and do. But if anyone hasn't figured it out yet, what I lost is a great woman, who tried to tell me I drank to much and i wouldn't listen. She's been gone a month, despite my attempts to call her. I sent her a long letter today, telling her what I've done these past few days and a whole lot of other stuff. I need her to be able to do this guys, I'll be to sad with out her. I really screwed myself up 😞
Let it ride - she aint gonna be anywhere but near - waiting for the first proof of the change. She's waiting for you! Concentrate on you and being clean. Smarten up and keep as you have for the last three days. If you can do that for the next 3 weeks - she'll be back!
Don't pressure her in that it's all changed..... it takes just a little time - she needs your faith. But I bet you bet you bet you she is waiting!
You're right in that you screwed you up. Nobody else will unscrew you other than you! So take heed in what I say. Do it for you, not for her, and if she sees that strength in you.... she'll be laughing with you before you know it!
So tomorrow and the next day first eh mate?! 😉
30 Nov 07
Originally posted by PocketKingsstaying sober is the only chance to get her back then. it's hell to live with an alcoholic, and once it gets too much it takes a lot to get over it. and as anyone who's lived with an alcoholic knows, words or promises mean absolutely nothing, only actions count.
Thank you, its been alot to admit and do. But if anyone hasn't figured it out yet, what I lost is a great woman, who tried to tell me I drank to much and i wouldn't listen. She's been gone a month, despite my attempts to call her. I sent her a long letter today, telling her what I've done these past few days and a whole lot of other stuff. I need her to be able to do this guys, I'll be to sad with out her. I really screwed myself up 😞
I hope you succeed. at least you've realized what the real problem is. most don't admit it even to themselves no matter what. good luck!
30 Nov 07
Originally posted by wormwoodSo admit it then! 😏
staying sober is the only chance to get her back then. it's hell to live with an alcoholic, and once it gets too much it takes a lot to get over it. and as anyone who's lived with an alcoholic knows, words or promises mean absolutely nothing, only actions count.
I hope you succeed. at least you've realized what the real problem is. most don't admit it even to themselves no matter what. good luck!