Originally posted by divegeesterI have no grudge to bear against you, divegeester.
How long will you be carrying a grudge against myself?
Will you be "forgiving and forgetting" any perceived insult or injustice?
You may be a pain the neck, and you are, ...remember to add that to your list! ... But that doesn't give rise to a grudge.
Originally posted by StartreaderBut that big long list of ranting insults you aimed at me (and which I copied to the previous page) speaks louder than your claims here.
I have no grudge to bear against you, divegeester.
You may be a pain the neck, and you are, ...remember to add that to your list! ... But that doesn't give rise to a grudge.
Originally posted by divegeesterNo outburst. Nothing emotional. Just cool, detailed, accurate observation.
I'm just pointing out that based on your outburst (which i copy pasted on the previous pages from page 195), your unbridled emotional posting does not live up to your pretensions of not holding a grudge against me.
Originally posted by divegeesterA grudge, Divegeester, is by its nature specific. Are you harbouring guilt over something you've done or thought? Do you feel you've wronged me in some way I'm not aware of?
I'm just pointing out that based on your outburst (which i copy pasted on the previous pages from page 195), your unbridled emotional posting does not live up to your pretensions of not holding a grudge against me.
Unburden yourself, do.
Originally posted by StartreaderWe are talking about your claim that you feel people should forgive and forget.
A grudge, Divegeester, is by its nature specific. Are you harbouring guilt over something you've done or thought? Do you feel you've wronged me in some way I'm not aware of?
Unburden yourself, do.
Do you forgive me and forget anything I've said that you find causes you to think I'm a "pain in the neck"? Or was that you being a bit pretentious?
Originally posted by StartreaderFor how long would you carry it? Factor into your calculations the
If you forgive, why go on mentioning it? For how long are you going to carry this grudge?
excruciatingly painful and long treatment, the loss of social and professional
interaction, the financial turmoil, and then... picture yourself being bullied by it.
And, before you answer, remember I smell bull crap from a mile away.
Besides, forgiving does not mean forgetting. Fool me once, etc. etc.