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@divegeester saidI don't think he was well suited to the cut and thrust of the forums.
I hope he is contented in life; all of his posting under all of his different usernames, declared directly and indirectly, that he wasn’t.
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@ghost-of-a-duke saidHe strikes me as being a bitter and quite nasty sociopath. The ability for him to exercise online disinhibition in these forums provided an irresistible platform for him to vent his spleen.
I don't think he was well suited to the cut and thrust of the forums.
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@divegeester saidAnd of course certain people had his back and scarcely ever pushed back.
He strikes me as being a bitter and quite nasty sociopath. The ability for him to exercise online disinhibition in these forums provided an irresistible platform for him to vent his spleen.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidAnd yet you let him in nine times.
Not me of course. - The reason he left the Chamber on 9 occasions.
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@fmf saidWould have been different, had I kicked him out.
And yet you let him in nine times.
On one occasion I challenged him directly about making comments about another poster's family (Dive's I seem to recall) and how this was not okay. This instigated one of the club departures. - But like I say, he had issues, which I took into account. - He could however be extremely creative and personable in the right environment.
Edit: Perhaps, if you were less toxic, you might have seen this side of him.
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@ghost-of-a-duke saidIt's interesting that you didn't kick him out when he was being a sociopath on the forums. Did you somehow make him a better person by turning a blind eye year after year?
Would have been different, had I kicked him out.
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@ghost-of-a-duke saidBut it was me in his fantasy about my children coming into my bedroom and slitting my throat while I was asleep and numerous similar things, including stuff about my wife. Do you think it had something to do with you and him thinking I am "toxic"?
Perhaps, if you were less toxic, you might have seen this side of him.
24 Sep 23
@ghost-of-a-duke saidyou might have seen this side of him
Perhaps, if you were less toxic, you might have seen this side of him.
Some 'other side of him' is completely irrelevant if he is saying poisonous things about my wife in public, surely?
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@ghost-of-a-duke saidAnd you let him back in, even after he retracted his apology for what he said about divegeester's wife?
On one occasion I challenged him directly about making comments about another poster's family (Dive's I seem to recall) and how this was not okay. This instigated one of the club departures.
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@ghost-of-a-duke saidWhat environment was that?
He could however be extremely creative and personable in the right environment.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidDid you keep letting him back in, and therefore keep indulging him, because you are "a mental health practitioner"?
Not me of course. - The reason he left the Chamber on 9 occasions.
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@mike69 saidAre you being manipulated into being a mouthpiece for @Excited-Exile, aka Kevin Eleven?
But what the hell am I doing now? !!! 😉
