11 Jan 11
Originally posted by NordlysFrom my womanly experience, I know lots of women who cry pretty regularly, including myself. I never used to cry in my 20's. It started happening in my 30's.
Are you implying that a woman who's crying ALL THE TIME over everything is not a total wuss and an emotional mess? 😕
No, not ALL women cry often. Some rarely. Seems part of the program for most women though.
Should I even ASK if you ever cry?
11 Jan 11
Originally posted by wormwoodYou are REAL man!
twice a year sounds like a crybaby to me. I'd say once a decade would sound about right, for an emotional type. and it's not about being manly or TUFF!~. men just don't do crying.
not that there's anything wrong with it. we just stop doing it after puberty. pent up frustration, clenching fists in the pocket, grinding teeth, building stuff, punching walls ...[text shortened]... e might do it, we DON'T want to discuss it.
of course there are exceptions.
😉
11 Jan 11
Originally posted by SunburntIt happens, but I need to be in a lot of pain to have it happen in front of other people (like a year ago at the hospital when my arm was freshly broken, and it hurt like hell when they moved it). I very rarely see other grown-up people (male or female) cry either unless they are at a funeral. Maybe it's a cultural thing.
From my womanly experience, I know lots of women who cry pretty regularly, including myself. I never used to cry in my 20's. It started happening in my 30's.
No, not ALL women cry often. Some rarely. Seems part of the program for most women though.
Should I even ASK if you ever cry?
11 Jan 11
Originally posted by NordlysNordlys, crying is meant to be private...I should hope nobody is crying at work and other such places.
It happens, but I need to be in a lot of pain to have it happen in front of other people (like a year ago at the hospital when my arm was freshly broken, and it hurt like hell when they moved it). I very rarely see other grown-up people (male or female) cry either unless they are at a funeral. Maybe it's a cultural thing.
Broken bones = crying ok.
11 Jan 11
Funnily, I just read about 'Miesten vuoro' (English title 'Steam of Life'😉, a Finnish documentary about men in the sauna. Here's an excerpt from one of the reviews: "The film is immensely touching, and I noticed most of the audience (consisting, of, to my surprise, mostly of men) was in tears when the lights came back on." Ha!
11 Jan 11
Originally posted by SunburntThat looks like a pretty stupid movie. How long did it take her to figure out she had a blind side due to the big fat guy walking next to her?
You probably cried the entire time during this movie -
LAME!
http://www.fondosdeescritorio10.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/The_Blind_Side.jpg
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