I can actually give you some serious advice as this exact scenario happened to me a little while ago.
Best bet is to get them both together and tell them what you think, It wont go down that well at the time, and they might not talk to you for a little while ( some months in my case) but when they have had time to think about it they will appreciae your bravery and be willing to forgive you - by which time they will both have likely split up anyway and you will get the all clear to have her as your girlfriend.
If it happens to work the other way round, and you end up making them work harder at the relationship to stay together, it is a victory of sorts as you can claim to be the one who saved their relationship and they will both 'owe' you, so you can cash in on that favour sometime in the future.
Originally posted by chessisvanityyou guys are right, so how should I do this... like I said earlier, I have zero experience asking girls out, dating, everything...
i still think about girls who "got away" from me...
now all i can do is rob there house and steal pictures....
IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT TO BECOME?!?!
never done any of it before, and I don't know if I'm shy or what... fear of rejection is a pathetic condition, but sometimes, it looks like that is why I've never asked a girl out... god, I'm a mess...
girls know all of this.....i think they sold there soul to satan for the info....
they know you are nervous and they love it!!
just stutter it out and tell her.....she'll love it....
now if she laughs in yer face....well son...you call me....
I've been to prison more than once.....i ain't afraid to go back....i even miss aaron my good buddy....
but anyways.....she laughs you call me.....i'll make her "ugly"
Its ok, I didnt really do it for a long time. In fact, the girlfriends I have had, I have to prepare the right situation to ask them to go out with me - it is like chess, a commitment.
Like if you make a sacrifice, you have to weigh it up and know whether it is the right thing to do in the long term. Unfortunately, there are also those who sacrifice at will just for the fun of it and the short term pleasure it gives.
Originally posted by Drew Lthat's encouraging...
Asking girls out is tough. I thought I had it all planned out. However, girls always walk in packs. So I had to time it just right when the girl wnet to her locker [Conveniently 2 down from mine] before school started.
...She still said no...