Originally posted by ThinkOfOneWould the AAP be strongly opposed to someone striking a child on the back if that was the only way to dislodge the object that the child was choking on?
Not sure what you don't understand about the following statement:
"The American Academy of Pediatrics strongly opposes striking a child for any reason."
It means that regardless of whatever "reason" might be given, the AAP is STRONGLY OPPOSED to striking a child.
Therefore, the AAP are:
STRONGLY OPPOSED to striking a child even if it "is not int ou or anybody else may dream up.
Do you understand the statement now?
Indeed here is the guidance:
Step 2: Try to dislodge the object with back blows and abdominal thrusts.
First do back blows
If a child is conscious but can't cough, talk, or breathe, or is beginning to turn blue, stand or kneel slightly behind him. Provide support by placing one arm diagonally across his chest and lean him forward.
Firmly strike the child between the shoulder blades with the heel of your other hand. Each back blow should be a separate and distinct attempt to dislodge the obstruction.
Sickening.
Originally posted by Rank outsiderDo you really need to have it pointed out to you that what the AAP is addressing is child discipline and that it is meant in that context?
Would the AAP be strongly opposed to someone striking a child on the back if that was the only way to dislodge the object that the child was choking on?
Honestly. You really need to ask youself why it is so important for you to defend the "right" for adults to strike defenseless children. Seriously, take a step back.
Originally posted by robbie carrobieyour a cheeky little mcfibber robbie. i know you can only defend yourself if the teenager breaking into your property attacks you. if he doesnt attack you then you wouldnt kick him in the arse. in fact if he did attack you, i think youve said in the past that you would use the martial arts you know to 'ward off blows'.
how do you know i wouldn't kick a rapist or a child molester caught in the act of rape or
molestation? Id certainly kick a teenagers ass if I caught him trying to break into my
property. These types of discussion tend to drag the thread to the level of a tabloid
newspaper, try to provide empirical evidence as you have done before, citing
ref ...[text shortened]... , even as thinkofone and rank outsider are doing, it saves the
thread from becoming personal.
so i would guess from that you can only hit children if they have hit you first.
Originally posted by ThinkOfOneAnd if you recall I entered the debate with the statement:
Do you really need to have it pointed out to you that what the AAP is addressing is child discipline and that it is meant in that context?
Honestly. You really need to ask youself why it is so important for you to defend the "right" for adults to strike defenseless children. Seriously, take a step back.
I might use the type of smack you are suggesting where the situation related to something which might otherwise result in severe danger to the child. E.g. the child runs out into the road despite your constant warnings on the matter.
This, as far as I am concerned, has nothing to do with discipline. I would not use the smack to say 'if you run out in the road, you need to learn that you will be smacked'. I mean 'you have to stop that now and I can't risk you not obeying'. If I was certain other techniques would be as effective I would use them in preference.
13 Nov 12
Originally posted by Rank outsider"If I was certain other techniques would be as effective I would use them in preference"
And if you recall I entered the debate with the statement:
I might use the type of smack you are suggesting where the situation related to something which might otherwise result in severe danger to the child. E.g. the child runs out into the road despite your constant warnings on the matter.
This, as far as I am concerned, has noth ...[text shortened]... '. If I was certain other techniques would be as effective I would use them in preference.
im pretty sure they dont have a huge problem in sweden with kids getting run over because their parents dont smack them.
Originally posted by Rank outsiderYour definition was a laudable attempt to get us all talking about the same thing.
Funny that you should think that there has been no attempt to define the term 'child swatting' when not that long ago I said:
"I would say that the term ‘child swatting’ should be defined as the act of striking a child which:
• is performed with an open hand (i.e. is not a punch and does not involve the use of an implement)
• is not intended t ...[text shortened]... hat this is how it is defined. We are debating actions and consequences, not semantics.
I didnt phrase it very well but I was asking for an independent
definition. "Swat" is being thrown around as if it is a common-
place term and I cannot get any definitions for it off the net.
So it looks like it has been made up for this debate and this
debate only.
Originally posted by Bosse de NageI took it that corporal punishment is 'sickening' for you, with no exceptions. Please correct me if necessary.
I took it that corporal punishment is 'sickening' for you, with no exceptions. Please correct me if necessary.
Child prodding would be - prodding a child. Perhaps sharply, to draw their attention - in the same manner that 'mild swatting' has been described. Draw from experience or failing that your imagination. Or are you one of those for whom nothi chement are often the ideological fault lines where schools of thought diverge.)
Correct
Child prodding would be - prodding a child. Perhaps sharply, to draw their attention - in the same manner that 'mild swatting' has been described. Draw from experience or failing that your imagination. Or are you one of those for whom nothing is real unless it's on Google?
I wouldn't say prodding a child to get their attention was CP - rude, yes, CP, no.
The 'wolfgang59 scale' is, of course, your own personal measure of these things. Unless you've got a blind spot for metaphor, it's disingenuous of you to pretend not to understand this simply metaphor.
Thats not a metaphor
Allow me to rephrase: Would it be sickening to you or not if an adult prodded a child to draw the child's attention, and if so, would it be as sickening as hitting?
An easy answer would be: not sickening at all, since I don't consider prodding to be corporal punishment. Would you go with that?
Yes
I'm quite happy to go with how you would use 'prod'. I'm sure we could figure out any difference between our usages. I'd be surprised if they differed substantially, to be honest.
Maybe
As for semantics, sincere interlocutors can find their way towards each other despite differences in usage or definition, because they have the power to explain and interpret. (The limits of rapprochement are often the ideological fault lines where schools of thought diverge.)
Too many big words!
Originally posted by wolfgang59More than one person has covered these points at exhaustive length ...
Apologies if I have missed it but has anyone come up with
the [b]difference between "swatting" and "mild swatting" yet?
Also a situation deserving a "swat" and another situation deserving a "mild swat" would be useful.
Thanks[/b]
Originally posted by wolfgang59But you can prod someone so hard it hurts. Same as you can swat someone so lightly it doesn't hurt a bit. See?
[b]Child prodding would be - prodding a child. Perhaps sharply, to draw their attention - in the same manner that 'mild swatting' has been described. Draw from experience or failing that your imagination. Or are you one of those for whom nothing is real unless it's on Google?
I wouldn't say prodding a child to get their attention was CP - rude, yes ...[text shortened]... ften the ideological fault lines where schools of thought diverge.)[/b]
Too many big words![/b]
Big words? Oh, tush.
Originally posted by stellspalfieWho says parents in Sweden don't smack their children?
[b] "If I was certain other techniques would be as effective I would use them in preference"
im pretty sure they dont have a huge problem in sweden with kids getting run over because their parents dont smack them.[/b]
Originally posted by wolfgang59I agree, by the way. I didn't like the term 'swat' given its connotations with swatting a fly. It is not a phrase I would use, but assumed people would look more at intent rather than terminology. Maybe it is commonplace elsewhere.
Your definition was a laudable attempt to get us all talking about the same thing.
I didnt phrase it very well but I was asking for an independent
definition. "Swat" is being thrown around as if it is a common-
place term and I cannot get any definitions for it off the net.
So it looks like it has been made up for this debate and this
debate only.