Originally posted by NordlysI do respect her and do include her in all decision making and I do try to accomodate her wishes. If that is not an equal partership then I don't know what is.
I didn't say you were abusive. But it's not an equal partnership, as you say yourself. And your attempts to explain why the partnership can't be equal didn't sound like you really respect her (or a woman in a partnership in general) as an equal either.