Spirituality
01 Aug 17
03 Aug 17
Originally posted by @chaney3The fiasco was the PM itself, I think. Some, like you, felt its content was OK and felt strongly that I had some kind of duty of confidentiality about her behaviour and shouldn't have shown it to friends, while others thought there was nothing wrong with me sharing it because there was no onus on me to keep such a thing secret, but the discussion about that was all a simple. lively back and forth and not a fiasco at all.
I found nothing wrong with her 'published PM', and you instigated the entire fiasco by sharing a PM with friends, which was wrong. 🙂
03 Aug 17
Originally posted by @fmfYeah, the pages and pages of your endless back and forth with him clearly show how you stopped engaging with him. Maybe somewhere in FMF world.
Handy Andy 'published' your PM on the General Forum and so people saw the nature of it. Fetchmyjunk is welcome to publish mine: it was not a deranged toxic rant laced with ridiculous narcissistic paranoia and laughable threats. It was a calm and weary explanation of why I was going to disengage with him, which I did. You promised you were going to stop engaging me and then leave the site for good because of me. You didn't keep either of these promises. 😉
03 Aug 17
Originally posted by @rajk999You should be ashamed of yourself for saying this, but I guess this is now your claim to fame here, sad as it is... attacking Christians. Just come out of the closet with your atheism, already.
You cant believe anything a woman says... a Christian woman .. even worse
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Originally posted by @chaney3It's all part of his 'used-car salesman' approach to the truth.
I found nothing wrong with her 'published PM', and you instigated the entire fiasco by sharing a PM with friends, which was wrong. 🙂
Originally posted by @suzianneI took a rest for quite a long time. He wasn't reading what I was posting and then he'd claim that I hadn't posted stuff that was, in fact, in the posts he hadn't read (or was ignoring). I wasn't the only member of this community to comment on it. Several posters who engaged him mid-2016 stopped interacting with him altogether. Perhaps you aren't aware of what was going on? Eventually, I got fed up of typing so much stuff that he wasn't even acknowledging had been added to the conversation, so I took a rest for however long it was... a few months or weeks? I don't remember.
Yeah, the pages and pages of your endless back and forth with him clearly show how you stopped engaging with him. Maybe somewhere in FMF world.
03 Aug 17
Originally posted by @fmfAll because of gutless moderation here.
The fiasco was the PM itself, I think. Some, like you, felt its content was OK and felt strongly that I had some kind of duty of confidentiality about her behaviour and shouldn't have shown it to friends, while others thought there was nothing wrong with me sharing it because there was no onus on me to keep such a thing secret, but the discussion about that was all a simple. lively back and forth and not a fiasco at all.
There once was a time on this very site when people were warned for making PMs public. Your unrepentant defense of doing so should have received the same warning, if not an expulsion. Clearly, there are, or at least were, people whose morality is questionable involved in the moderation here. Just as clearly, your decision to make it public was not nearly as successful among the forum regulars as it was among your 'friends'.
03 Aug 17
Originally posted by @suzianneNo. You said "It's all part of his 'used-car salesman' approach to the truth" when what I did is show your PM - verbatim, unedited - to some of my friends. How that is supposedly some distortion of "the truth", only you can explain.
Need a remedial lesson in English?
Originally posted by @fmfTo maintain the spirit of this thread, it was 'evil' to share a PM with friends, when the sender was unaware of that action.
No. You said "It's all part of his 'used-car salesman' approach to the truth" when what I did is show your PM - verbatim, unedited - to some of my friends. How that is supposedly some distortion of "the truth", only you can explain.
Originally posted by @suzianneI shared it privately with a few friends. You then asked someone to make it public and HandyAndy did as you wished. What was it that you thought was 'not successful' about what ensued?
Your decision to make [my PM] public was not nearly as successful among the forum regulars as it was among your 'friends'.