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Originally posted by @chaney3
I found nothing wrong with her 'published PM', and you instigated the entire fiasco by sharing a PM with friends, which was wrong. 🙂
The fiasco was the PM itself, I think. Some, like you, felt its content was OK and felt strongly that I had some kind of duty of confidentiality about her behaviour and shouldn't have shown it to friends, while others thought there was nothing wrong with me sharing it because there was no onus on me to keep such a thing secret, but the discussion about that was all a simple. lively back and forth and not a fiasco at all.

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Originally posted by @fmf
Handy Andy 'published' your PM on the General Forum and so people saw the nature of it. Fetchmyjunk is welcome to publish mine: it was not a deranged toxic rant laced with ridiculous narcissistic paranoia and laughable threats. It was a calm and weary explanation of why I was going to disengage with him, which I did. You promised you were going to stop engaging me and then leave the site for good because of me. You didn't keep either of these promises. 😉
Yeah, the pages and pages of your endless back and forth with him clearly show how you stopped engaging with him. Maybe somewhere in FMF world.

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Originally posted by @rajk999
You cant believe anything a woman says... a Christian woman .. even worse
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You should be ashamed of yourself for saying this, but I guess this is now your claim to fame here, sad as it is... attacking Christians. Just come out of the closet with your atheism, already.

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Originally posted by @chaney3
I found nothing wrong with her 'published PM', and you instigated the entire fiasco by sharing a PM with friends, which was wrong. 🙂
It's all part of his 'used-car salesman' approach to the truth.

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Originally posted by @suzianne
Yeah, the pages and pages of your endless back and forth with him clearly show how you stopped engaging with him. Maybe somewhere in FMF world.
I took a rest for quite a long time. He wasn't reading what I was posting and then he'd claim that I hadn't posted stuff that was, in fact, in the posts he hadn't read (or was ignoring). I wasn't the only member of this community to comment on it. Several posters who engaged him mid-2016 stopped interacting with him altogether. Perhaps you aren't aware of what was going on? Eventually, I got fed up of typing so much stuff that he wasn't even acknowledging had been added to the conversation, so I took a rest for however long it was... a few months or weeks? I don't remember.

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Originally posted by @suzianne
It's all part of his 'used-car salesman' approach to the truth.
Your PM was the "used car" in this analogy?

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Originally posted by @fmf
The fiasco was the PM itself, I think. Some, like you, felt its content was OK and felt strongly that I had some kind of duty of confidentiality about her behaviour and shouldn't have shown it to friends, while others thought there was nothing wrong with me sharing it because there was no onus on me to keep such a thing secret, but the discussion about that was all a simple. lively back and forth and not a fiasco at all.
All because of gutless moderation here.

There once was a time on this very site when people were warned for making PMs public. Your unrepentant defense of doing so should have received the same warning, if not an expulsion. Clearly, there are, or at least were, people whose morality is questionable involved in the moderation here. Just as clearly, your decision to make it public was not nearly as successful among the forum regulars as it was among your 'friends'.

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Originally posted by @fmf
Your PM was the "used car" in this analogy?
Need a remedial lesson in English?

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Originally posted by @suzianne
There once was a time on this very site when people were warned for making PMs public.
You invited whoever wanted to to publish your PM on the Debate Forum and HandyAndy obliged. I had only shown it some friends.

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Originally posted by @suzianne
Need a remedial lesson in English?
No. You said "It's all part of his 'used-car salesman' approach to the truth" when what I did is show your PM - verbatim, unedited - to some of my friends. How that is supposedly some distortion of "the truth", only you can explain.

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Originally posted by @fmf
No. You said "It's all part of his 'used-car salesman' approach to the truth" when what I did is show your PM - verbatim, unedited - to some of my friends. How that is supposedly some distortion of "the truth", only you can explain.
To maintain the spirit of this thread, it was 'evil' to share a PM with friends, when the sender was unaware of that action.

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Originally posted by @suzianne
Your decision to make [my PM] public was not nearly as successful among the forum regulars as it was among your 'friends'.
I shared it privately with a few friends. You then asked someone to make it public and HandyAndy did as you wished. What was it that you thought was 'not successful' about what ensued?

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Originally posted by @chaney3
To maintain the spirit of this thread, it was 'evil' to share a PM with friends, when the sender was unaware of that action.
It was "evil"? Using what definition of the word?

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Originally posted by @fmf
It was "evil"? Using what definition of the word?
"Something that is harmful or undesirable".

This was one of the definitions of evil, it will suffice in this case.

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Originally posted by @chaney3
"Something that is harmful or undesirable".

This was one of the definitions of evil, it will suffice in this case.
Whose definition of "evil" is that?

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