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@ghost-of-a-duke said
You criticize me for giving an example from 2.5 years ago and yet dig up one from 5?
robbie carrobie is long gone, true. I wasn't talking about bad feelings or anything like that. I was illustrating how lying about PMs can run the risk of seeming like a scumbag. Now, robbie carrobie was not a scumbag all the time but he was certainly one some of the time.

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@divegeester said
No, you said you “dread” team meetings.

You’re not the “line manager” of the mental health professionals who’s work you coordinate. You’re probably quite good at what you do, coordinating, but they dislike you, personally.
I know what I do for a living sir.

And I love how you've dropped Clinician and replaced with coordinator, in your ongoing fishing exercise for personal information you can weaponize. Romans would be proud of you.

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@ghost-of-a-duke said
You criticize me for giving an example from 2.5 years ago and yet dig up one from 5?
I wasn't a scumbag 2.5 years ago or at any time prior to or since then.

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@fmf said
I wasn't a scumbag 2.5 years ago or at any time prior to or since then.
Why did you bring that word into the thread?

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Do you agree with Very Rusty who's said that I need "professional help"?

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I'll talk you through it again:

1. Endlame makes an obvious joke.
2. Dive, blinded by anything Suzianne related, takes it literally.
3. You follow his lead.
4. When it becomes blindingly apparent it was a joke, and the pair of you look rather 'silly' your spite gene kicks in and you call him a scumbag.

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@fmf said
@Ghost-of-a-Duke
Do you agree with Very Rusty who's said that I need "professional help"?
That question doesn't interest me.

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@ghost-of-a-duke said
Why did you bring that word into the thread?
Because to lie about PMs - perhaps to victimize someone - in the hope that people will believe it would be the sort of thing that a scumbag would do. But it turns out EndLame was just joking.

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@ghost-of-a-duke said
That question doesn't interest me.
Interesting.

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@ghost-of-a-duke said
I'll talk you through it again:

1. Endlame makes an obvious joke.
2. Dive, blinded by anything Suzianne related, takes it literally.
3. You follow his lead.
4. When it becomes blindingly apparent it was a joke, and the pair of you look rather 'silly' your spite gene kicks in and you call him a scumbag.
My answer is the same:

When I realized it was a joke I posted this: Suzianne has been known to send creepy PMs in the past so it's best not to pretend she is doing it when she isn't. Just deal with what she posts on threads and leave it like that.

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@divegeester said

You’re not the “line manager” of the mental health professionals who’s work you coordinate. You’re probably quite good at what you do, coordinating, but they dislike you, personally.
I think this is where you get a little bit weird, creating a narrative about someone you know very little about, purely for spiteful reasons. I notice you tend to do this when you are failing to gain traction in a given thread.

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@fmf said
My answer is the same:
Pity. I thought the time gap might have generated a better answer.

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@fmf said
But it turns out EndLame was just joking.
Well, duh.

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@ghost-of-a-duke said
I know what I do for a living sir.
So do I know what you do.

And as experienced multilevel line manager myself I know when someone is disliked by their colleagues in a team. And that’s you, and that’s why you dread your team meetings.

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@ghost-of-a-duke said
I think this is where you get a little bit weird, creating a narrative about someone you know very little about, purely for spiteful reasons. I notice you tend to do this when you are failing to gain traction in a given thread.
Actually I know quite a lot about you; I’m very good at reading people, it’s a gift.

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