Originally posted by HandyAndyBinge bump
If you're serious about quitting, the first thing you have to do is get off the booze. Trying to quit cigarettes while continuing to consume alcohol is like fighting with both arms tied behind your back.
But here's the rub: Giving up smoking and drinking at the same time is next to impossible. Your first effort has to be to eliminate all forms of alcoho ...[text shortened]... seem to be a tenacious, determined guy. What more do you need to get to where you want to be?
Originally posted by darvlayHave you got to the cranky stage yet?
I know, Andy.
I know.
I don't drink too much these days either. The problem is I have a closeknit group of friends who ALL smoke. I can't exactly cut them out of my life. But I have been doing "well". By most people's standards anyway...
Ok, Perhaps in your case I should have said more cranky?
Have you asked anyone out on the street what the HELL they were looking at yet?
Originally posted by darvlayWould your friends think any less of you if you quit drinking? Your problem seems to be
I know, Andy.
I know.
I don't drink too much these days either. The problem is I have a closeknit group of friends who ALL smoke. I can't exactly cut them out of my life. But I have been doing "well". By most people's standards anyway...
that three elements in your life -- friends, drinking, smoking -- have become intertwined.
Use your mental pruning shears and cut away some of those deadly vines. Real friends
will stick by you whether you smoke or not.
Originally posted by HandyAndyDon't get me wrong - they'lls tick by me. No one judges me for drinking or smoking less. It's my own weakness that causes the relapses. I didn't mean to place blame on anyone other than myself in that post.
Would your friends think any less of you if you quit drinking? Your problem seems to be
that three elements in your life -- friends, drinking, smoking -- have become intertwined.
Use your mental pruning shears and cut away some of those deadly vines. Real friends
will stick by you whether you smoke or not.
Originally posted by darvlayGood luck. Don't think of it as a weakness. Think of it as a choice.
Don't get me wrong - they'lls tick by me. No one judges me for drinking or smoking less. It's my own weakness that causes the relapses. I didn't mean to place blame on anyone other than myself in that post.
The best weapon you have against nicotine is attitude.