17 Jan 11
Originally posted by yo its meI have met some great, wonderful people there. I have to say that you're one of the very genuine, and true to your word people I've met.
So true. I am still sad that I let some great friends go over the years. Facebook is good for finding them again, but it's never the same once you've lost contact for a decade and lives have moved on.
But you! You've got a thousand on Fb haven't you smooks!!
Life does move on and you do realize as time goes by how many people trust in you to be your friend.
Cyber friends are just like plastic, once you touch them, they don't bend.
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by SmookiePThank you Smooks 🙂
I have met some great, wonderful people there. I have to say that you're one of the very genuine, and true to your word people I've met.
Life does move on and you do realize as time goes by how many people trust in you to be your friend.
Cyber friends are just like plastic, once you touch them, they don't bend.
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by yo its meLooking at your profile photo I wouldn't have guessed you are a woman.... 😛
I agree with all the women how have posted so far- maybe it really is that women and men see things differently??
Sharing everything with someone is an existential impossibility. Can be understood by men and women alike. Some religions have lead people to strive for the impossible.
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by souvereinThat be my sense of humour 😉
Looking at your profile photo I wouldn't have guessed you are a woman.... 😛
Sharing everything with someone is an existential impossibility. Can be understood by men and women alike. Some religions have lead people to strive for the impossible.
Which religions do you mean?
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by souvereinYeah souverein what religions? I'm curious, please elaborate.
Looking at your profile photo I wouldn't have guessed you are a woman.... 😛
Sharing everything with someone is an existential impossibility. Can be understood by men and women alike. Some religions have lead people to strive for the impossible.
17 Jan 11
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Originally posted by Very RustyRusty, are you saying you are married with children?
If you were here, and I could show you how wrong you are, it would cause your face to turn a deep red.
My views may differ from yours on relationships and bringing up children, but I don't say to you, that you have experienced neither, because that would be down right rude in a civil conversation.
It is a shame you haven't learned to be able to conv see you not being petty in your relationship actually, but then I might be the one surprised.
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by Very RustyKeeping secrets and just not telling somebody something are two totally different things.
Keeping secrets is not always a good thing, they have a way of coming out down the road, it is best to be open and discuss everything with your partner.
2 weeks ago I fell on an icy path while out walking the dog. I told my neighbour while we were talking about the state of the paths and roads, but i didn't tell my partner. The subject never came up with him and I didn't feel the need to tell him something as trivial as that. But it's not a secret. Maybe i will tell him - if the subject matter of falling on ice comes up in the future, he doesn't need to know every detail about my whole day or time spent away from him.
17 Jan 11
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Originally posted by Pawn QweenProbably breaking win, wouldn't be an important issue to talk with your partner about either. Lets use a little common sense, I am talking about things that could become issues down the road if not discussed.
Keeping secrets and just not telling somebody something are two totally different things.
2 weeks ago I fell on an icy path while out walking the dog. I told my neighbour while we were talking about the state of the paths and roads, but i didn't tell my partner. The subject never came up with him and I didn't feel the need to tell him something as trivia future, he doesn't need to know every detail about my whole day or time spent away from him.
In the future be more careful when walking on ice, you could break something important, then you would have no choice but for your partner to know how clumsy you were. 😉
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by Very RustySuch a charmer you are VR, no wonder you are so knowing in the ways of relationships.
Probably breaking win, wouldn't be an important issue to talk with your partner about either. Lets use a little common sense, I am talking about things that could become issues down the road if not discussed.
In the future be more careful when walking on ice, you could break something important, then you would have no choice but for your partner to know how clumsy you were. 😉
Are you going to give an example on a subject that, when not mentioned to a partner, could result in an 'issue'?
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by yo its meAlmost all religions, because they are based on views that are born in the past and adjust rather slow to the needs of modern times. Especially monotheistic religions excel in promoting and defending the 'one and only' concept.
That be my sense of humour 😉
Which religions do you mean?
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by souvereinInteresting. Do you belive in lots of Gods? Or are we talking about polygamous relationships?
Almost all religions, because they are based on views that are born in the past and adjust rather slow to the needs of modern times. Especially monotheistic religions excel in promoting and defending the 'one and only' concept.
17 Jan 11
Originally posted by yo its meI find it interesting to watch how we are influenced by religion. I am not a believer or denier of gods.
Interesting. Do you belive in lots of Gods? Or are we talking about polygamous relationships?
Sorry if I was unclear, but polygamy was not in my mind.😳 I was trying to convey that the institute of sacral, sacramental and lifelong marriage has contributed to the idea that you should share all and everything with one person. To me that is an erroneous idea, which can lead to a lot of misery.