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25 Mar 07
Originally posted by MissShellCorrect me if i am wrong Shelly, but reading your posts i am detecting that you are justifying your previous circumstances or defending single mothers and the like. If this is the case, don't. You don't have to explain your situation to anyone. There are plenty of reasons women or men for that matter are placed in a situation of relying on benefits. Sometimes, beyond their control. Taxes pay for more than just welfare.
not all wome get babies from random men.. i was married for a long time and had kids to my husband thinking it was forever and then when it wasnt i was left stranded... i got my kids on thier feet then myself and i work and pay taxes like everyone else.. and plan to for a long time.. thank you!!!!
25 Mar 07
Originally posted by chrissybthanks you darl.. i dont have to justify anything.. i am taking my kids away around the world in under a week and its not thanks to the goverment... but my job and investments...
Correct me if i am wrong Shelly, but reading your posts i am detecting that you are justifying your previous circumstances or defending single mothers and the like. If this is the case, don't. You don't have to explain your situation to anyone. There are plenty of reasons women or men for that matter are placed in a situation of relying on benefits. Sometimes, beyond their control. Taxes pay for more than just welfare.
life is what people make it... and im making it big.. no.. actually massive...
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25 Mar 07
Originally posted by MissShellwell done!! xx
thanks you darl.. i dont have to justify anything.. i am taking my kids away around the world in under a week and its not thanks to the goverment... but my job and investments...
life is what people make it... and im making it big.. no.. actually massive...
25 Mar 07
Originally posted by MissShellvery well said..!!🙂🙂
pro-creating is not something that i do not specialize in...
yes i do have three and wish to encompass more children into my life through sponsoring, forstering and adopting... but personally i would not expect anyone to pay anymore for the life i have lived...
i am working and hope to contiune to work and provide for my own now and for in the futu ...[text shortened]... hat is their choice but they have seen it so it should have some effect on them later in life...
25 Mar 07
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundWe have them here in England to Huck i like to call them breeders!
Here in Ireland, there are a social class of women who think it is their god given right to drop sprogs left right and centre, and expect us to foot the bill. I honestly believe that if no proof of prior/current marriage can be given after two kids, then these brainless cabbages should be neutered in the name of crime prevention.
Ive worked since i was 15 and right up until i was due to drop my kids and i went back to work 1 month after i had them. All be it that it was part time but i have always worked. I cant stand sponging low life's that do nothing but shell out kids and expect others to pay for them!
26 Mar 07
Originally posted by bubThat's why you is so sexy babes 😀
We have them here in England to Huck i like to call them breeders!
Ive worked since i was 15 and right up until i was due to drop my kids and i went back to work 1 month after i had them. All be it that it was part time but i have always worked. I cant stand sponging low life's that do nothing but shell out kids and expect others to pay for them!
26 Mar 07
Originally posted by bubI worked up until I had my kids too. After my second daughter was born I can remember her dad bringing her to where I worked during my breaks so I could breastfeed her. I even continued to work part time when Iwent back to school full time. I also remember the hassles and costs of child care. After my 3rd was born I decided there was more money to be had providing child care than requiring it. And it's much more rewarding to be able to spend the time nurturing and being there for my baby while knowing that I'm providing another parent some piece of mind at the same time.
We have them here in England to Huck i like to call them breeders!
Ive worked since i was 15 and right up until i was due to drop my kids and i went back to work 1 month after i had them. All be it that it was part time but i have always worked. I cant stand sponging low life's that do nothing but shell out kids and expect others to pay for them!
I live in the only debt free province in Canada. It didn't get to be that way by handing out tax dollars to freeloaders. A single mother here having to depend on welfare would soon find herself unable to provide even the basics. With every business in town advertising help wanted signs any person looking for a handout would be seriously laughed at.
The only drawback to providing child care is the longing for adult conversation from time to time. Playing tea party and tickle monster all day every day doesn't provide much of a challenge but it more than covers the cost of living. I manage quite well from it...even a luxurious trip to Disneyworld and the Bahamas for me and my kids.
As far as relying on child support....LOL! What a joke. They have very strict set amounts up here that aren't even worth cashing the cheques for. But it all adds up over time. Child support payments should be just that....support for the child. All of my kids will be able to go to university and even have money put away for their first car on the money that gets set aside for them each month.
Either way having another child is not somwething that will put me in the poor house. Or put anyone else in a position to have to support my family.
The stereotype that exists concerning single mothers is outdated and completely unwarranted. Mind you...I don't have any idea what it's like in less affluent parts of the world that still carry with it great stigma against single mothers. It's not that much of an issue here as it seems to be in other places.
26 Mar 07
Originally posted by mokkoyou are lucky then sounds like you live in a good place...
I worked up until I had my kids too. After my second daughter was born I can remember her dad bringing her to where I worked during my breaks so I could breastfeed her. I even continued to work part time when Iwent back to school full time. I also remember the hassles and costs of child care. After my 3rd was born I decided there was more money to be had provi ...[text shortened]... t single mothers. It's not that much of an issue here as it seems to be in other places.
here in australia im always stereotyped and i try to laugh it off as much as possible...
26 Mar 07
Originally posted by MissShellI have had many very long talks with you know who the past few days. He even came over last night to talk and from everything he tells me it is a very different culture as far as attitudes go. Makes me feel horrible for what you must have to go through. I'm just glad that people don't care about such silly things as that up here. Bottom line is it's nobodies business or place to judge. Mind you...you still get the few hard core red necks with limited thinking abilities but nobody pays much attention to those sorts either.
you are lucky then sounds like you live in a good place...
here in australia im always stereotyped and i try to laugh it off as much as possible...
26 Mar 07
Originally posted by mokkoLMAO! "hard core red neck with limited thinking ability"
I have had many very long talks with you know who the past few days. He even came over last night to talk and from everything he tells me it is a very different culture as far as attitudes go. Makes me feel horrible for what you must have to go through. I'm just glad that people don't care about such silly things as that up here. Bottom line is it's nobodies b ...[text shortened]... d necks with limited thinking abilities but nobody pays much attention to those sorts either.
You should copyright that... ..before I make it my forum title! 😵😳