Help - Dude in Distress

OK.

I'd just like to thank everyone that has contributed to this thread.

I'm so happy that I can finally think of a solution, after about 20 hours after starting this thread.
Thank you all very much. You'll be seeing much more of me around, so stick around.

FYI, I'm just going to convince the girl that I like to follow her heart, not her head. And maybe try to get a bit closer to her.

Ill post the details when something happens.

Jim

Originally posted by ParShooter
Ok, we must consult "Seinfeld" on this one. Do you remember the episode with where Jerry wanted to replace Girl 1 with her roommate, Girl 2? You face the same dilemma. He and George worked it over until George came up with the plan. Here it is:

Tell Girl 1 ("G1"😉 that you want to have a threesome with her and G2. She will slap you and tell you to get l ...[text shortened]... eld balked because he was a one-woman man. But maybe this would be a good outcome for you!

Originally posted by rockerjim
OK.

I'd just like to thank everyone that has contributed to this thread.

I'm so happy that I can finally think of a solution, after about 20 hours after starting this thread.
Thank you all very much. You'll be seeing much more of me around, so stick around.

FYI, I'm just going to convince the girl that I like to follow her heart, not her head. ...[text shortened]... maybe try to get a bit closer to her.

Ill post the details when something happens.

Jim

Originally posted by duecer
try the menage a trois route a la Sienfeld. what have you got to lose?

Hey guys,

I'm back - and I think I am going to go insane.

Ok, well, tonight we just had a deb/formal night ok? and so yeah, things were going ok, i bought her a rose and all, and thats cool. The whole night well, we danced, i held her (but she ended up "unconnecting" our hands from time to time)

ok, well in the way back home, i asked her about what SHE felt - disregarding her friends (and silly enough, she couldnt disregard what her friends would feel even if i asked what she felt) - then i asked her, what do you think, about us going out? shes like maybe.

and so yeah, we got to her place, and i took her to the door and i put my hand on her shoulder and asked if she mind if i kissed her. (i just couldnt, i was getting mixed signals, i had to be sure)

and she said "no" BUT HAHA when i went in for the kill, she was like "no, my friend wouldnt agree" so i was like WTF - (she mustve said the wrong answer). and yeah, her mum opened the door - end of story.

anyway guys, what do you think that is? thats the result.
i am hinting that she doesnt like me. what do you guys think, am i right? - do you think thats the end of it?
ive basically lost all my chances with anyone in her vicinity again right?



please reply.
jim

Originally posted by rockerjim
Hey guys,

I'm back - and I think I am going to go insane.

Ok, well, tonight we just had a deb/formal night ok? and so yeah, things were going ok, i bought her a rose and all, and thats cool. The whole night well, we danced, i held her (but she ended up "unconnecting" our hands from time to time)

ok, well in the way back home, i asked her about wh ...[text shortened]... ly lost all my chances with anyone in her vicinity again right?



please reply.
jim

Originally posted by rockerjim
Hey guys,

I'm back - and I think I am going to go insane.

Ok, well, tonight we just had a deb/formal night ok? and so yeah, things were going ok, i bought her a rose and all, and thats cool. The whole night well, we danced, i held her (but she ended up "unconnecting" our hands from time to time)

ok, well in the way back home, i asked her about wh ...[text shortened]... ly lost all my chances with anyone in her vicinity again right?



please reply.
jim

Originally posted by Sunburnt
"no, my friend would agree"?


I'm not clear on what happened.

Originally posted by Palynka
Why do you think that middle-aged men and women from around the world would know better than your friends or family about you and your relationships?

Talk to them, man. I'm on the other side of the world. What do I know?

Originally posted by rockerjim
Hey guys,

I'm back - and I think I am going to go insane.

Ok, well, tonight we just had a deb/formal night ok? and so yeah, things were going ok, i bought her a rose and all, and thats cool. The whole night well, we danced, i held her (but she ended up "unconnecting" our hands from time to time)

ok, well in the way back home, i asked her about wh ...[text shortened]... ly lost all my chances with anyone in her vicinity again right?



please reply.
jim

Originally posted by rockerjim
Because I dont know, theres just some things i cant talk to my folks about - like this. i just think that the world's opinion may be a bit useful.

Originally posted by Hand of Hecate
Loser.

Originally posted by Sunburnt
I would forget this girl. Move on. It sounds to me that she is a pain in the ass. There are other girls that are more honest and straightforward. Find a girl who won't play that game with you.

Originally posted by trev33
some girls are worth it.

keep at it man until you get a kick in the balls.

Originally posted by Sunburnt
Don't be such a prick.