07 May 07
Originally posted by sangfroidRemember my friend, alcohol is just like a woman. Sure they make you feel great when they are both around and in the morning you wake up feeling like crap cause they are not there. Just go to the store and get another case of booze. Plus it is much cheaper.
http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/downloads/relationships/unrequited-love.html
Wow what a bargain, although I feel alcohol can do the same for me, and probably give me more pleasure than listening to some dodgy mp3!
07 May 07
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Originally posted by sangfroidNext time yous hug, kiss her on the disengage.....It's called the "Fu*k this for a laugh, let's see what happens" play.
Why does love hurt so much? Unrequited love is the worst, I fear I am now in the 'friend zone'. My only solution to this so far is to get as drunk as I possibly can and use internet porn.
The thing is, we go out, just the two of us and have some amazing times, do everything that a couple would do, have moonlight walks along the river blah blah blah but ...[text shortened]... ed at chess, and getting drunk seems like my alternative,
Love hurts hey, or is it just me?
If it doesn't work, you know where you stand, and at least you can retire for the night safe in the knowledge that she knows you like her.......and that you actually have a pair.
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07 May 07
Originally posted by sangfroidactually both. and the only advice i can give you is to tell her how you feel ... be simple and honest, like it was said earlier in this thread. everything else will either land you in more emotional pain or right at the bottom of that bottle.
... Love hurts hey, or is it just me?
trust me, i've been there, as i'm sure lots of other people in this forum, and i think most of us will agree that rather take the pain of unanswered love and move on or, if she feels the same about you, have the joy and happiness of fulfilled feelings and emotions, than go through the emotional torture of being the sideline, 'a friend', she's so comfortable keeping by her side, knowing that you will always be there for her.
and just remember, love does hurt, and hurts badly, but we ourselves make the pain so much worse. don't do that to yourself, it's not worth drowning yourself in the bottle ... besides, the bottle doesn't work anyway. 😉
07 May 07
Originally posted by sangfroidDon't listen to the rest of these losers, they either have the wrong idea and will get you a knee to the nuts, or they have the right idea for the wrong reasons.
Why does love hurt so much? Unrequited love is the worst, I fear I am now in the 'friend zone'. My only solution to this so far is to get as drunk as I possibly can and use internet porn.
The thing is, we go out, just the two of us and have some amazing times, do everything that a couple would do, have moonlight walks along the river blah blah blah but ...[text shortened]... ed at chess, and getting drunk seems like my alternative,
Love hurts hey, or is it just me?
Tell her that you want to hump her like a drunken monkey. If she fecks off, you're still better off. Girls make crap friends - they don't know anything about ultimate fighting or cars and they always want to tell you about what piece of crap they wasted their money on today. If she feigns disgust but still hangs about just keep pressuring her 'til you come out ahead one way or the other.
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07 May 07
Originally posted by st00p1dfac3That's not entirely true. Some girls know about cars and ultimate fighting and they won't tell you about what they wasted their money on. Oh course, you have a better chance of seeing God then having them sleep with you since they prefer "the company of other women".
Girls make crap friends - they don't know anything about ultimate fighting or cars and they always want to tell you about what piece of crap they wasted their money on today.
07 May 07
Originally posted by ChaosChildNoooooooooooo!
actually both. and the only advice i can give you is to tell her how you feel ... be simple and honest,
Don't tell her anything - you'll just be pushed further into the abyss!
Keep hanging around her but actively try to shag anything (female) that you can - eventually you'll get lucky and find someone else worthwhile and you can get some closure with the 'real deal' chick.
Silly to lose a good friend for nothing.
Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and accept that things won't work out the way you want. Alcohol helps with this enormously - especially if combined with the odd, 'Oops ... who are you??' morning after incidents! 😉
07 May 07
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Originally posted by treetalkwhy would he be pushed further into the abyss? it's a simple statement, requiring a simple answer, which should lead to a clear understanding where the future would take him. and besides, what 'good friend' are we talking about? for her he might be 'just a good friend', but in his mind she is far more than that ... how long can a person keep this sort of a relationship? even humping around like a drunken monkey, getting s**t scared of the new face every other morning only to lean to the other side for that good ol' bottle of jose under the bed ...
Noooooooooooo!
Don't tell her anything - you'll just be pushed further into the abyss!
Keep hanging around her but actively try to shag anything (female) that you can - eventually you'll get lucky and find someone else worthwhile and you can get some closure with the 'real deal' chick.
Silly to lose a good friend for nothing.
Sometimes you just specially if combined with the odd, 'Oops ... who are you??' morning after incidents! 😉
and i can understand biting the bullet and accepting the situation when you know what the situation is. at this stage i can't say that the situation is all that clear. who knows? perhaps she might be interested in more than just a friendship and things will work out the way he wants. but until things are spoken out loud, it is mixed signals and their (mis)interpretations everything is based on. and it's so vague ...
07 May 07
Originally posted by ChaosChildI think ChaosChild has a point here. For all you know, she might just be scared to lose all you have now by taking it to another level (and if so, I might understand, since humping seems so important to you). I mean, moonshinewalks, etc... Will you still be doing that if she would admit she has fallen for you?
why would he be pushed further into the abyss? it's a simple statement, requiring a simple answer, which should lead to a clear understanding where the future would take him. and besides, what 'good friend' are we talking about? for her he might be 'just a good friend', but in his mind she is far more than that ... how long can a person keep this sort of ...[text shortened]... xed signals and their (mis)interpretations everything is based on. and it's so vague ...
Is she a hopeless romantic? You know, letting it drag on might be part of the way she likes to be won over...