22 Sep 07
Originally posted by AThousandYoungI agree with Red Night, there seems to be lots of people like this around.
Eventually after much persistance she was able to coax me to come see her after I was trashed, though even then I said I wasn't coming to have sex with her, though she had tempted my addled brain into thinking we were going to make out or something.
They dangle on the line and put a face of respectability, but once in a while they slip up and show how repulsive they can be. It's really a disease.
22 Sep 07
Originally posted by SuzianneOther have said almost as much in my absence, but still worth me posting:
(a) Oh really? Please tell me why everyone has concentrated on ATY as if he was the AntiChrist, when the ORIGINAL poster of the actual offensive abusive comment to a minor goes scot free? Would you like to explain this to me? I see he got his post deleted. Big aching deal. I would have banned him from this site for what he said. (And for the slow ones ...[text shortened]... deleted, so I guess that makes everything ok) was aimed at. THAT is all I am saying.
a) I don't care much for the rest of the contributors, I concentrated on ATY as this is the thread I first saw (I still didn't find the original offensive post) and ATY's post merited addressing on its own.
If you can point me in the direction of te first offender, I'll raise the discussion with them also. Will that satisfy you?
b) Good
c) A very emotive post relating to an area which is quite clearly close to your heart. As others mentioned, you have some sensory perception there if you can tell none of us do anything. The problem I have with your post is that it reminds me of the charity-muggers (chuggers) I get accosted by in the high street each day - they each have their own cause to raise as an issue - e.g. please sign up to help oxfam, p.s. don't go near the scope chuggers at the end of the road there, we need your money more than they do.
So where do I help out? Do I look for a local victim shelter, or how about local youth development sports schemes, or how about local wildlife trusts? Is local not good enough? I'll go work on a national scale encouraging others to help protect a local shelter/scheme/SSSI? Maybe I should go global and preach to all about saving the gorillas? Or christian Aid or the Red Cross? Can i do all at once?
What I certainly do is I try to help - but I won't have others preaching at me where and when I should be helping. THAT is all I'm saying.
22 Sep 07
Originally posted by cashthetrashI said he'd done something wrong in terms of a moral judgement on what is acceptable behaviour towards a minor - intoxication being no defence.
No one said he did anything wrong, we were having an adult discussion. Giving him a chance to clarify what he was willing to talk about. This isn't about naming and shaming anyone. And not about banning either, but about hoping that someone will try and be more responsible and think when it comes to barley teens that are here on this site or in public e ...[text shortened]... so. Agree with who you want, when you have a child of your own sometimes your beliefs change.
RN also pointed out the legal side wich suggested one wrong had been comitted and another would have been had the minor not broken off contact with ATY.
I can only say on reflection that ATY brought this on with the content of his first few posts in this thread - had the description of events been worded differently (more sensitively perhaps, with a little more thought), I'm sure the thread would've taken a different course and this discussion wouldn't continue.
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22 Sep 07
Originally posted by Red NightRight, I see where you're coming from (no pun intended 😕 ), personally, I don't think our so called 'sex chat' is bad at all, it's pretty tame really, and it's not like I am actually directing it at minors specifically, which is where the whole problem is as far as I am concerned.
Presuming that you are both who and what you say you are, and one can never be certain on the internet, then you are both of legal age in your jurisdictions and from that point of you I don't really care. Although, the RCMP might...I'm not sure.
But, I don't think that the constant sex chat betwen you two (and others) is approprite for a venue that in ...[text shortened]... ecause the whole thing sort of skeeved me. It reminded me of the old Meat Opponents thread.
22 Sep 07
Originally posted by rhbI agree with RHB here.
I said he'd done something wrong in terms of a moral judgement on what is acceptable behaviour towards a minor - intoxication being no defence.
RN also pointed out the legal side wich suggested one wrong had been comitted and another would have been had the minor not broken off contact with ATY.
I can only say on reflection that ATY brought this on with th ...[text shortened]... I'm sure the thread would've taken a different course and this discussion wouldn't continue.
22 Sep 07
Originally posted by Frank BurnsYou probably would have to read the whole thread Frank.
Red, I didn't read through the entire thread to find out what you are on about but...
What the hell are you talking about?
A lot of people got involved and a substantial portion of the content deals with a separate issue that was revealed in the thread itself.
22 Sep 07
Originally posted by Red NightWell, that's pretty typical Red. They spin off don't they? Kind of like a bad spin-off of a bad sitcom.
You probably would have to read the whole thread Frank.
A lot of people got involved and a substantial portion of the content deals with a separate issue that was revealed in the thread itself.
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